Kunyange zvazvo sezviri pachena munhu upi noupi angava akarovedzana nokunyora tsamba, muitiro usingachanyanyi kudzika midzi munzanga yanhasi. Tichifunga nezvekuzvarwa kwedzimwe nzira dzekukurukurirana uye kupanana ruzivo, tsamba yacho yakarega kuve iripo mukudyidzana pakati peshamwari kana hama dzinogara kure. Pane kudaro, chimiro chetsamba chiripo munharaunda yehunyanzvi. Pasina kupokana, mukwikwidzi anogona kushandisa chimiro ichi kunyora sumo meseji inozadzisa uye inosimudzira yakanakisa vhezheni yavo yekutangazve. Kutanga sei tsamba yepamutemo muchirungu? Mazano ekutanga.
Dzimwe nguva, kunyorwa kwetsamba kunopa kuwedzera kuomarara kune munyori weiyo yakafanana. Izvi ndizvo zvinoitika kana meseji ichifanirwa kunyorwa neChirungu. Icho chinhu chinoitika kazhinji mazuva ano sezvo vanhu vazhinji vachitsvaga basa kune imwe nyika, sarudza kudzidza kune dzimwe nyika kana kuda kuzadzisa chinangwa iyo yakabatana zvakananga nezivo yemutauro. Muchiitiko chekutumira tsamba yakakosha, zvakakosha kunyatsoongorora gwaro kugadzirisa chero zvikanganiso.
Chii chinonzi tsamba yepamutemo uye ndeapi maitiro ayo?
Tsamba yepamutemo, sezvinoratidzwa neshoko, inosiyaniswa kubva kune iyo ine imwe isina kurongeka uye yepedyo toni. Mutauro wepamutemo ndeuyo unoshandiswa kakawanda mundima yehunyanzvi uye yezvidzidzo. Saka, Zvakanakira kubatanidza iyo toni mukutaurirana kunoitika mumamiriro ekubvunzurudza basa kana mukuratidzwa kwekukwikwidza kwechinzvimbo chebasa. Nenzira imwecheteyo, iwe unogona zvakare kutora iyo toni mumatanho akasiyana anoitwa mukunyora mumamiriro ezvidzidzo.
Kana uchida kunyora tsamba muChirungu, chengeta pfungwa dzinoverengeka kuti ugadzire pepa rekutanga. Ziva chinangwa cheshoko racho, kureva musoro wacho. Ndeupi hurefu hunodiwa kuti ugadzire mapoinzi akasiyana etsamba (pamwe hauzodi kunyora anopfuura peji rimwe). Nenzira imwecheteyo, tsamba muChirungu inofanira kuva nenhanganyaya, budiriro uye mhedzisiro yayo (zvikamu zvakakosha izvo, kune rumwe rutivi, zvinopindirana zvakakwana).
Nzira yekukwazisa sei mutsamba yepamutemo muChirungu
Eya, mavambo etsamba muchiRungu, kana kuti mumwe mutauro upi noupi, ane basa rinokosha. Nekuda kwenzvimbo yayo muzvinyorwa, inoshanda kushamwaridzana neanopindirana uye kuita yakanaka yekutanga fungidziro. Kana iwe uchiziva mumwe munhu munharaunda yako ane murairo wakakwana weChirungu, kana iwe unoenda kumakirasi ega ega kuti udzidze mutauro, Iwe unogona kuvimba nerubatsiro rwekunze kugadzirisa chero kupokana.
Ndeipi nzira inoshandiswa kutanga bhii repamutemo muChirungu? Kwaziso inonangidzira ngwariro kune anopindira ndiyo kiyi pakuita kuti ruzivo rwuri murugwaro rwuve rwemunhu. Saka zvino, tsamba yako inogona kutanga sezvizvi: Wadiwa Mr kana Mai. Kazhinji, Inzwi rinoshandiswa kutanga kutaurirana nemunhu wausina kuonana naye kana kuti wausina kumbotaura naye. Iyo formula "Mudiwa", kune rumwe rutivi, iri pedyo. Nokudaro, inofanira kudziviswa mutsamba yepamutemo.
Kune rumwe rutivi, zvakakosha kugadzirisa chikonzero chetsamba pakutanga kwayo. Nechikonzero ichi, iwe unogona zvakare kusuma imwe tsananguro nezvazvo pakutanga kwechinyorwa. Tsanangudzo yechikonzero inogona kutanga sezvinotevera: «Ndiri kukunyorera nokuti». Nokudaro, nyatsoteerera kukwazisa uye kuratidzwa kwechikonzero chakatungamirira kukutumira tsamba kune interlocutor.