El kudheerera Nderimwe rematambudziko anotyisa kwazvo munzanga yanhasi uye mumamiriro ekudzidzisa. Vamwe vane mukurumbira zvakare vakatsanangura kuve vakave vakuvadzwa kwerumwe rudzi rwekushungurudzwa. Mutambi Vanesa romero, munyori webhuku "Reflections of a blonde." Kana mutambi Nacho Guerreros, mumwe wezviso zveLa que se avecina, ndiye munyori webhuku iri: "Iniwo ndakatambura nekushungurudzwa." Iyo tekinoroji zera zvakare inokonzeresa iko chaiko shanduko yedambudziko iri kubvira parizvino, kushungurudzwa kunogona kutowedzera kuInternet. Rimwe remabhuku akanakisa pamusoro penyaya iyi "Kudheerera, El acoso Escolar". Bhuku rakanyorwa naWilliam Voors.
Pamberi pe nyaya yekudheerera zvakakosha kuti vabereki nevadzidzisi vakurudzire kugara vachitaurirana. Mune mamwe mazwi, iyo nguva iyo vabereki paine chero fungidziro, vanofanirwa kuiunza kuzita remudzidzisi wemudzidzi nemukuru wechikoro.
Hazvisi nyore nguva dzose kuziva zviri kuitika nekuti, dzimwe nguva, anenge abatwa nekushungurudzwa anovanza zvinoitika kwaari nekutya kana kunyadziswa. Vabereki nevadzidzisi chinhu chakakosha kwazvo chekutsigira mudzidzi mukurwisa kushungurudzwa. Bhuku rakambotsanangurwa "Kudheerera: Kudheerera kuchikoro"; chishandiso chinobatsira kwazvo chekuwana ruzivo. Ndezvipi zviratidzo zvekudheerera?
Mhedzisiro inoshungurudzwa inoburitsa pane akabatwa
1. Tsika yekuzviparadzanisa nevamwe. Kutambura kwekushungurudzwa kunotungamira kune yakakura kuwanda kwezvirongwa zvega. Mwana kana wechidiki anonzwa kutya kusangana nevamwe nekunzwa kusekwa nevamwe vevaanodzidza navo.
2. Mwana anofara paweekend kana paholiday pane pavhiki paanofanira kuenda kuchikoro. Mamiriro ezvinhu echikoro ari chinokonzera kushungurudzika, kutambura nekushushikana kwemwana. Ndokunge, rarama chiitiko ichi nenzira isina kunaka. Naizvozvo, kusuruvara chiratidzo chinogona kuitika chekudheerera.
3. Kazhinji, iyo kunetseka uye kutambura iyo inosangana nemudzidzi semhedzisiro yekudheerera inokanganisa manzwiro avo uye kugona kuisa pfungwa. Nekuda kweichi chikonzero, mwana anogona kuve akaipisisa bvunzo mhedzisiro.
4. Kuzvitarisira pasi. Kutsvinyira hakuna kunaka kubata kwepamoyo. Ndokunge, nepo zvakanaka caresses zviri izvo zvinopa kuzivikanwa munharaunda, pane zvinopesana, kuseka kunokanganisa iyo yega-pfungwa iyo munhu anayo nezvake. Munhu anozvitarisa kuburikidza negirazi rakamonyoroka remhinduro dzaanogamuchira kubva kune vamwe. Mune mamwe mazwi, inopinza mukati mamamwe mameseji aanogamuchira.
5. Kunetseka uye kusagadzikana zvinogona zvakare kukanganisa zvezuva nezuva zvinhu zve mararamiro emwana kana kuyaruka. Semuenzaniso, mudzidzi haachanakidzwa nezviitiko zvavaimbofarira. Kubva pakuona kwekuda kudya kunogona kuve nemaviri akasiyana akanyanyisa. Kana iwe unogona kukanganisa nzara yekuzvidya mwoyo. Kana, pane kudaro, kunetseka kunogona kuburitsa mhando yemafumbu mudumbu inobira chishuwo. Izvo zvinogona zvakare kuitika kuti kudheerera kunoratidzwa kuburikidza nezviratidzo zvisingazive zvakadai sekurota hope husiku.
6. Kubva pakuona kwake, nyajambwa angaratidzika seakagomara uye akasimba pahutano. Chimwe chinhu icho mhedzisiro yekurasikirwa kwekunyepedzera.