Ukuba phantse malunga nokuthetha idigri yekholeji ezayo kwaye uwutshitshise umbono we yiya komnye umzi Kungenxa yokuba ufuna ukuzimela, ngenxa yokuba idigri yaseyunivesithi ofuna ukuyenza ayifumaneki kwisixeko sakho, okanye ngenxa yokuba inqanaba alifikeleli eyunivesithi ekufutshane nekhaya lakho kodwa eyunivesithi kwisixeko esikufuphi, Nazi ezinye zezinto ekufuneka uyazi ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokufunda ngaphandle kwesixeko sakho.
Kuthatha ntoni ukufundisisa komnye umzi ongengowakho
Ekuboneni kuqala, kunokubonakala kulula ukuthatha iisutikheyisi zakho uye kwesinye isixeko uyokwenza idigri yaseyunivesithi oyifunayo, kodwa akukho lula kangako, kwaye sifuna ukuba ububone ubunyani ukuze ubenobunzima Ukulunga kunye neengozi zokuhamba ukuya kwenye indawo ubuncinci iminyaka emi-4, namhlanje egcina isidanga saseyunivesithi:
- Fumana iflethi, ukuba kunokwenzeka, kufutshane neyunivesithi ukunqanda iindleko zothuthoInto yokuqala ekufuneka uyenzile ukuba sele ugqibe ekubeni ufunde kwelinye ilizwe kukufumana iflethi. Ukuba unako ukuhlala wedwa endlwini ugqibelele, kodwa ibaluleke kakhulu imali yenyanga ekufuneka uyongeze kwiindleko zokufunda sele kubandakanya.
- Ukuba uhlala eflethini nabanye: Ungangqamana nabantu abazalana nawe, izinto ozithandayo kunye namaxabiso kwaye awunangxaki, kodwa ayisiyiyo ixhaphakileyo. Ukuba uqhele ukuhlala nabazali bakho okanye uwedwa kwaye ngoku kufuneka nihlale kunye, ukungavisisani kunye neengxaki ezahlukeneyo ezihlala kunye ngokubanzi kwaye zihlala zibandakanya. Kuya kufuneka kwakhona kuthiwe ngokuqinisekileyo omnye okanye abantu abaninzi ohlala nabo baya kuthi ngokuthe ngcembe babe ngabahlobo abakhulu.
- Funda ukuphatha imali: Ukuba umncinci kwaye abazali bakho bakuthumela imali yenyanga ngeendleko zakho, kuya kufuneka ufunde ukuyilawula loo mali ukuze ifike kuwe kuyo yonke into: ukutya, amanqaku, iincwadi, ukuphuma, iimpahla, iindleko ezongezelelweyo, njl.
- Awuyi kuba nompheki okanye isicoci: Uya kuba ngumnini wobomi bakho kodwa uxanduva kunye noxanduva obo bomi buquka: ukwenza ukutya, ukucoca indlu, ukuthenga ukutya kwaye kwangaxeshanye, ukuya eklasini kunye nokwenza iishedyuli zokufunda zesiqhelo, kunjalo.
Kutheni eli nqaku? Ngenxa yokuba sonke kwi-18 siye salilinganisa ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi ithuba elihle lokuya kwesinye isixeko ukuze sifunde kwaye sibe nokuzimela, kodwa konke okukhazimulayo akuyona igolide: inezinto zayo ezintle (akukho mntu ukukuyalela, akukho mntu ukuyalelayo, hayi unezibophelelo ezibekwe ngabanye, akukho mntu ulawula into oyenzayo, utya into oyifunayo kwaye xa ufuna, phuma ngaphezulu, njlnjl.) kodwa ikwanazo nezinto zayo ezimbi, nokwazi yonke into, kuxa unokwenza , icingisiswe kakuhle kwaye ke, ongasayi kuzisola ngayo ngomso.