Uya kuvumelana nam xa ndisithi umsebenzi awufanelanga ukuba yindlela yokufumana imali ukuze ufumane imali kwaye uphile, kodwa kunokuba ibe yindlela yokuphila ekwenza uzive ulungile kwaye nayo ikuvumela ukuba ufumane imali kwaye ukwazi ukuziphilisa kwaye uphile kamnandi. Ukuba awunawo umsebenzi okugcwalisayo, uya kuziva ngathi ubotshelelwe, njengendlwana ofuna ukuphuma kuyo ngazo zonke iindleko.
Kodwa kuyinyani ukuba xa ungekho emsebenzini olungileyo kubonakala ngathi izinto ziba nzima kakhulu, ufuna ukuyeka kodwa awufuni kuphulukana nemali kuba kuya kufuneka uyigqibe inyanga. Kubantu abaninzi (njengabantu abazisebenzelayo) isibonelelo sokungaphangeli sisibonelelo, nangona kukho abantu abahlawulwayo abathi, emva kokuba begxothiwe, basebenzise esi sibonelelo ukuze bakwazi ukukhangela umsebenzi wobomi babo. Kodwa Kukwakho nabantu abawushiyayo umsebenzi kwaye abafanelekanga ukuba bafumane isibonelelo sokungaphangeli, ke yonke into iba nzima. Kubonakala ngathi ukushiya umsebenzi ayisiyondlela ilungileyo nokuba iyintolongo kuwe.
Ngaba ukuyeka umsebenzi yinto elungileyo?
Akululanga xa ucinga ngokulandela inkanuko kwaye uyilandele ukuze uphile. Fumana uqeqesho obusoloko ulufuna kwaye usebenze kuloo nto uyithandayo nangaliphi na ixabiso, nokuba ungakanani, nokuba ungakanani na. Abanye abantu baya kukuxelela ukuba ukushiya umsebenzi ongawuthandiyo kwaye wenze into oyithandayo yeyona nto intle emhlabeni kuba iyakunyanga zonke iingxaki onazo ngoku ebomini bakho.. Uninzi lucinga ukuba lunyango lomntu osoloko enexinzelelo, esebenza kakhulu okanye oziva kakubi ngendlela ayikhethileyo.
Inyani iyacaca: ukushiya umsebenzi ungxamile kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ungazi apho ufuna ukuya khona ngekhe kusombulule zonke iingxaki zakho.
Indlela eya kwingqungquthela
Indlela eya engqungqutheleni ayinakuze ibe lula kwaye xa ufika phezulu sinokufumana ithambeka elisezantsi elenza ukuba uzibuze: Ngoku kufuneka ndenze ntoni? Ukuba ucinga ukuba into yangaphandle iya kusombulula iingxaki zakho, kunokwenzeka ukuba endaweni yokufumana izisombululo uza kufumana ezinye iingxaki ezongeziweyo, amathandabuzo malunga nokuba ufuna ukuya phi kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke, umzamo owongeziweyo mhlawumbi ongathembelanga kuwo.
Ukuba ufuna ukushiya umsebenzi kuba oko kukwenza ungonwabi, ingcinga yakho yokwenza oko iya kuba linyathelo lokuqala, kodwa kuya kufuneka ucinge ukuba yeyiphi indlela ofuna ukuyikhetha, into ofuna ukuyiphumeza, iinjongo zakho ... kwaye ushiye umsebenzi wakho xa sele uqalile ukuhamba apho ufuna ngenene kwaye wazi ukuba uza kuziphilisa njani ukuze uphele inyanga. Ngale ndlela awuyi kuziva ebumnyameni kwaye uya kuba nakho ukuqhubeka uhamba ngaphandle kwethambeka elikwenza uzive usoyika.
Inkululeko yimeko yengqondo
Inyani yile yokuba ukuba uyakholelwa kuwe nakuyo yonke into oyenzayo mzuzu uyenza ... uya kukhululeka. Inkululeko yimeko yengqondo kwaye unokukhetha ukuba ngoku, ngeli xesha, unokwenza nantoni na oyifunayo. Ngaba uya kuba neziphumo kwizigqibo ozenzayo? Ngokuqinisekileyo ewe, Zonke izigqibo zineziphumo ezithile, kodwa unenkululeko yokukwazi ukwenza le nto uyifunayo, ikukufikelela kwakho… Kufuneka ukhethe olo khetho, ukuba uyafuna.
Uninzi lwabantu lunokufuna ukuyeka umsebenzi ngenxa yokuba ukuzisebenzela kuzisa ulawulo ngakumbi kunye nemvakalelo yenkululeko, ngokwenene lutshintsho lwenene olo, kodwa yonke into inezinto ezilungileyo nezingalunganga. Ukuzisebenzela kusikelwe umda ... akukho nto ifezekileyo njengoko ibonakala, kodwa amaxabiso kunye neeprojekthi zakho zinokukwenza ukuba uhambe ngendlela elungileyo, kwaye yintoni? Indlela oziva ngcono ngayo ngawe, ngaphandle kokubeka imida.
Kodwa ukushiya umsebenzi ayisiyonto ikunika inkululeko, yenye indlela yokuqalisa iiprojekthi ezintsha ekufuneka uzifezekisile ngoxanduva nomsebenzi olungileyo. Kungenxa yoko ngaphambi kokushiya umsebenzi, kuya kufuneka ucace gca malunga nento ofuna ukuyiphumeza. Kodwa kufuneka ubenento ecace gca: ukuba uyafuna, ungayifumana.