Ukuqeqesha yenye yezona ndlela zifunwayo namhlanje, kungekuphela kwimbono yobuqu, kodwa nakwindawo yokujonga. Ngapha koko, inkqubo yoncedo kunye nokuhambelana inokusekwa kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo. Ezabasebenzi, ishishini, isigqeba okanye ibala lezemidlalo. Njengoko uyazi, wonke umntu uneenjongo kunye neenjongo afuna ukuhlangabezana nazo. Iinjongo ezinxulumene ngokuthe ngqo nomnqweno wendaleko kunye nokufuna ukonwaba.
Ngamanye amaxesha umxhasi unquma ukuqala inkqubo yoqeqesho ukuyeka ukubeka imiba efanelekileyo. Kwaye, ngale ndlela, izibophelela ekuthatheni inxaxheba kwinkqubo yokuzazi.. Inkqubo eyenziwe ngeeseshoni ezininzi apho umthengi efumanisa ukuba yeyiphi injongo afuna ukuyifezekisa, kwaye sithini isicwangciso somsebenzi azakusisebenzisa.
Yintoni inkqubo yoqeqesho?
Ngamanye amaxesha xa umntu esabelana ngephupha elibalulekileyo nabahlobo kunye nabantu abathandayo, abanye bathatha inyathelo lokunika iingcebiso, iingcebiso kunye neengcebiso. Kodwa uqeqesho lukhumbula ukuba indlela umntu ngamnye afuna ukuhamba ngayo yahluke kwaphela kwaye isimahla..
Ke ngoko, ngexesha lenkqubo yokuzibhaqa, umthengi uzifumana ethatha izigqibo ngokuzazi. Isifundo sinokuwela kukuphikisana rhoqo, umzekelo, ukufuna into kwinqanaba lethiyori kwaye ungenzi ngendlela ehambelana noko kukhuthazayo xa usenza.
Ayifumaneki yodwa ngexesha lenkqubo, kodwa ikhatshwa yimibuzo evulekileyo yomqeqeshi. Ingcali iveza imibuzo evulekileyo ekhuthaza ukubonakalisa ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba ngubani, ukongeza, onokuthatha ixesha lokuphendula. Ke ngoko, njengoko ubona, umqeqeshi ayinguye lowo unika imikhondo kunye neempendulo, kodwa ngumthengi ofikelela kwizigqibo zakhe.
Inkqubo yoqeqesho equlunqwe kuyo nayiphi na imeko ikhokelela ekuzalisekisweni kwenjongo. Injongo ekufuneka, kwelinye icala, ibonakaliswe ngendlela eyiyo. Le njongo akufuneki ingafikeleleki, kodwa ngokugqibeleleyo inokwenzeka kwaye inokufezekiseka. Kukho impazamo enokuthintela ukufezekiswa kwenjongo. Ukudibanisa oko kulindelwe kunye nomnqweno ongagunyaziswanga ngokwenyani. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba nayiphi na injongo eyiyo inokulinganiswa kwaye yeyethutyana.
Uqeqesho Luqeqesho olwahlukileyo kwingqondo, azingqinelani ngokufana. Ke ngoko, kunokwenzeka ukuba umqeqeshi abele umntu oqeqeshiweyo ityala elifuna unyango olukhethekileyo kwicandelo lezengqondo. Wonke umntu unamandla amakhulu, njengoko kubonakala kumandla okuphucula ngokwakho.
Inkqubo yokuhambelana ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho okanye zobungcali
Ukoyisa oko kukubonakalisa ukungagungqi, ukuzimisela kunye nokuzingisa kwabo bafuna ukufezekisa injongo. Akukho mntu makanike amandla okufumana ulonwabo komnye umntu. Uxanduva lophuhliso lomntu ngamnye alunakugqithiselwa. Kwaye inkqubo yoqeqesho yindlela enokunceda abanye abantu.
Umzekelo, inokuba sisitshixo ekuphembeleleni inkuthazo ngexesha lesicwangciso sentshukumo. Inokubonelela ngendawo efanelekileyo yokuphuhlisa izixhobo kunye nezakhono zokujongana neemeko ezinzima. Xa umntu elandela inkqubo emiselweyo ixesha elide, banokufumanisa ukuba bahamba kwindawo eqikelelweyo. Ukwenza izinto ngendlela efanayo kuvelisa iziphumo ezicacileyo: ivelisa iziphumo ezifanayo. Kwaye okwangoku, kunokwenzeka ukudibanisa amanqaku amatsha kwisicwangciso sentshukumo ukuvula ezinye iingcango.
Ukuqeqesha luqeqesho olunendima enkulu namhlanje. Ubungcali boqeqesho bukwayala abantu abafuna ukusebenza kwicandelo elinxibelelana nokufuna ulonwabo, ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo, ukukhula ngaphakathi kunye nolawulo lotshintsho.