Izindlela zokufundisa izingane ezinhle, ngokusho kwezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zeHarvard

Sonke sifisa sengathi umhlaba ubugcwele abantu abalungile, abanobubele, ngomqondo ophakeme we uzwela futhi sinomusa, ukuthi sishukunyiswa ububi, umona noma ukuhaha. Kodwa-ke, njengoba sibona nsuku zonke ezindabeni, emaphephandabeni, emgwaqweni, endaweni esiseduzane nathi ngezikhathi ezithile, ngeshwa lokhu akunjalo. Yebo, kuyiqiniso, noma okungenani yilokho esifuna ukukukholelwa, kunabantu abaningi abalungile kunababi, kepha laba bokugcina bakhona, futhi kwesinye isikhathi, umonakalo abawenzayo mkhulu kakhulu, ubuhlungu futhi abunakulungiswa.

Yebo, namhlanje sikulethela i-athikili eyenzelwe ngokukhethekile othisha, omama nobaba, ikakhulukazi kulezi ezimbili zokugcina. Uma ufuna ukwazi ukuthi yini i- okhiye bokufundisa izingane ezinhle, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zeHarvard University ezincome ukuthi zilandelwe, usendaweni efanele. Akekho owathi ukufundisa kwakulula, kepha kuyadingeka kakhulu.

Ungazikhulisa kanjani izingane / izingane ezinhle

Lawa amaphuzu esingawanaki ngokukhethekile ngoba abonakala esobala kakhulu kithina, kepha lapho lezi zihluthulelo ezinhlanu zihlanganiswa, zakha i-cocktail ephelele yendodana yethu, umfundi, umshana, ukuba abe umuntu olungile kusasa:

  • Chitha isikhathi nezingane zakho: Yinto okungafanele nokuthi siyisho. Uma sinezingane ukuthola isikhathi sokuzinakekela. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi kuya ngokuthi imaphi amazwe, ukubuyisana komndeni akuhambisani kakhulu nezikhathi zamanje nomsebenzi kungathatha isikhathi sethu esiningi, kepha njalo, nsuku zonke, kufanele sithole isikhathi esihle sokusichitha nezingane zethu.
  • Khuluma naye futhi uxhumana naye njalo: Ukuxhumana kuyisisekelo sobuhlobo, ngakho-ke bekungeke kube kuncane nezingane zethu. Kumele sikhathalele ukuthi yini ebalulekile kuwe, ukuthi yini oyifunayo, nokuthi yini oyikhathalelayo. Yiba nentshisekelo yokukhuluma nengane yakho futhi ngasikhathi sinye ulalele iziphakamiso zayo. Izingane kufanele zizizwe zinakekelwa.
  • Khombisa ingane yakho ukuthi ingaxazulula kanjani inkinga ngaphandle kokugcizelela umphumela: Kufanele ikunikeze amandla okuhlaziya nokuxazulula izinkinga kepha ungazixazululi ngokwakho njengomzali. Kumele umvumele abhekane nakho konke lapho ebhekene nobunzima: kusukela kumuzwa wokukhungatheka ngokungawutholi ekuqaleni uzame enjabulweni yokuthi ukwenze wedwa futhi ngaphandle kosizo. Vele, hlala eceleni kwakhe futhi umeluleke.
  • Kufanele ukhombise ukubonga kwengane yakho njalo: Lapho ngimnika umsebenzi wokuthi awenze futhi awenze, mbonge ngawo. Ukuzwa lokhu kubonga okuvela kumuntu omdala kuzobenza bazizwe bewusizo futhi benomusa kwabanye, ngakho-ke bazosiza njalo futhi babonise ubumbano obuningi.
  • Fundisa izingane zakho ukuba nombono obanzi kuyo yonke into: Lokhu kwenziwa ngokumfundisa ukulalela, ukumfundisa ukuxhumana, kumenze abone ukuthi akuyona yonke into emnyama noma emhlophe, kepha ukuthi ibhalansi ethile kumele itholakale kuye ngokuthi yiziphi izinto, njll.

Uma ulandela le mihlahlandlela noma okhiye abahlanu, ingane yakho kungenzeka ikhule ijabule futhi ibe ngumuntu omdala othembekile, onakekelayo nonakekelayo.


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.