Ekupheleni konyaka, ungasebenzisa leli thuba ukubheka izinhloso nezinhloso ezifinyelelwe ezingeni lezemfundo nobungcweti. Futhi yisikhathi esihle sokucabanga ngempilo yakho ukuze ufunde imikhwa ethile bese uhlanganisa emisha. I- ukucindezeleka Kungenye yemizwa ejwayelekile yendlela yokuphila yamanje enesimo sokufeza izinhloso. Okunye kokuhlangenwe nakho kokwelashwa ukunciphisa ukucindezeleka ukucabanga. Ziyini izinzuzo zokucabanga? Vuliwe Formación y Estudios sizokutshela.
1. Ukuphathwa kwesikhathi
Uziqhelelanisa kuze kube nini manje ukuxhumana nesikhathi esedlule ngombono wezinkumbulo ezibuhlungu noma ngabe bekuyini futhi bekungekho?
Kukangaki lapho uzwa khona ukungakhululeki ukubuka ikusasa ngombono omubi? Ngokuqeqeshwa kwe- ukucabanga ungavivinya ukwazi kwakho ukuxhumana nalapha futhi manje. Ngomkhuba wokucabanga ungafundisa ingqondo yakho ukujabulela umzuzu wamanje.
2. Hlukanisa okubalulekile kwesekondari
Ngokuphathelene nephuzu langaphambilini, ukucabanga kukusiza ukuthi uxhumane nokuhlakanipha okubalulekile kokunikeza ukubaluleka kokuyikho ngempela. Isibonelo, ufunda ukubhekana neqiniso lakho esikhundleni sokukhathazeka okulindelwe ngezinto ezingakaze zenzeke futhi ezingaze zenzeke.
Ngalokhu kuhlakanipha okubalulekile uthola izifundo ezibalulekile. Isibonelo, ufunda ukuthi akuyona imicabango yakho.
3. Uthuthukisa ubuhlobo nawe
Empilweni yakho yonke uzohlangana nabantu abaningi abehlukene. Noma kunjalo, akekho ozoba nawe ngaso sonke isikhathi kusukela ekuqaleni kuze kube sekugcineni. Uyi-protagonist yobukhona bakho; Ingabe uzizwa ngale ndlela? Ngokusebenzisa umkhuba wokucabanga wenza isimiso esihle lapho uthola khona isikhathi sokuba nawe.
Ngokukhulisa isibopho osigcina kuwe, uqinisa ithemba, inhlonipho, umusa, nozwela kuwe. Futhi, lesi sibopho osigcina nawe sinomthelela owakhayo ebudlelwaneni obakha nabanye. Ngalesi sizathu, ujabulela nokuningi kwezixhumanisi ze ukuhlanganyela eyunivesithi, emsebenzini, endaweni yakho yabangane nomndeni. Ngakho-ke, ukhulisa ukuhlakanipha kwakho ngokomzwelo nangokwenhlalo.
4. Thuthukisa ukugxila kwakho
Omunye wemiphumela emibi yokucabanga ngukuthuthuka kwezinga lokunaka nokugxila. Lokhu kunomthelela omuhle esifundweni, kodwa nakubo bonke imikhakha yempilo. Njengoba ukugxila kuyikhambi lokwelapha ukunaka okusakazekile.
5. Ukudumisa ukuzola
Awukwazi ukuguqula izimo zangaphandle kepha ungathonya iqiniso ngamandla akho angaphakathi ngokwakha isimo sengqondo esinethemba. Ngasikhathi sinye, kungokwemvelo ukuthi uphile izikhathi ezingeni eliphakeme lokucindezeleka. Kodwa-ke, lezi zikhathi kumele zinxeshezelwe nabanye lapho ukuzola kungu-a umgomo wangempela. Izikhathi zokucabanga zikunikeza lokhu kuzola.
6. Injabulo
Isisekelo senjabulo inkululeko yangaphakathi. Ngalolu hambo lokuzazi, khulisa izinga lakho lokuzikhohlisa okwamanje ngoba uyazi amandla akho. Lokhu kunomthelela owakhayo ekuthathweni kwezinqumo.
Ngokungangabazeki, ukuqala konyaka omusha kuhambisana nokugqugquzelwa kwezinhloso ezintsha. Uma ufisa umqondo wokuthola ukucabanga, thintana nokunikezwa kwe- ama-workshops ezifundiswa ngale ndaba. Ungafunda futhi incwadi ngalesi sihloko ukuthola eminye imininingwane ngale ndaba yokucabanga.