Ba bakon abu bane cewa, lokacin da zamu fuskanci wani irin gwaji ko jarabawa, muma muna jin kadan matsin lamba na lokacin. Mun riga mun faɗi cewa al'ada ce, don haka kada ku damu. Gaskiya ne cewa akwai lokuta na musamman wadanda jijiyoyin ku zasu iya yi muku wasa da hankali, don haka a wajannan ya kamata ku kiyaye.
Koyaya, bari mu miƙe tsaye zuwa ma'anar. Kuma wannan shine, bisa ga ƙarshe waɗanda aka samo daga binciken, an rarraba yara kamar mai kaifin baki Za su iya kasancewa waɗanda za su ɗauki matsin lamba mafi munin, a lokacin da nau'ikan gwaje-gwaje daban-daban ke nan gaba. A wata ma'anar, lokacin da zasu yi wani abu, sun kasance masu sauƙin nauyi da damuwa.
Wannan lamari ne na yau da kullun, kuma ba abin mamaki bane. Lokacin da yaro ya kai wani matakin hankali, yakan zama damuwa ƙari saboda tunanin ku, ta hanyar sarrafa gaskiyar ta wata hanyar, kuma yana gaya muku cewa dole ku damu. Koyaya, abu ne wanda yaro da kansa zai iya sarrafa shi, ta hanyar karatu ko ta hanyar mai da hankali ga yanayin.
Bari mu matsa zuwa akasin lamarin. Idan yaro bashi da hankali (ba tare da zuwa wasu tsauraran matakai ba) yana iya jure mafi kyawun damuwa, sanya nutsuwa a lokacin waɗancan lokutan da muke tattaunawa. Muna maimaita cewa wani abu ne na yau da kullun, tunda ita kanta kwakwalwar tana kula da bada waɗancan "motsawar" damuwar. Kamar yadda akwai ƙarin hankali, yaron zai kuma lura da ƙarin abubuwa. Kuma za a maimaita hakan a nan gaba.