Enye yezona mpazamo zaziwayo xa sijamelene noviwo zezi zaziwayo izitshixo. Uninzi lwexesha zibangelwa yimithambo-luvo, kodwa asinakulibala ukuba olu hlobo lwengxaki lunokuthintelwa, lusigcinele ixesha kunye nokuthanda inani elikhulu labo bavunyelweyo.
Sinokubaphepha njani? Ukwenza iibhlokhi zinyamalale kulula kunokuba kubonakala, kodwa ukufezekisa kuya kufuneka silandele uthotho lwamanyathelo, ngamanye amaxesha, anokuba nzima ngakumbi kunokuba ebonakala. Sithethile imithambo-luvo baziintshaba zethu ezinkulu. Asinasizathu, kuba ziya kusenza siphulukane nengqondo xa kufuneka sikhumbule imixholo esiza kuyibhala.
Okokuqala, xa ufaka uviwo, qiniseka ukuba wenze ngokupheleleyo ngoxolo, kunye nemibono ebekwe kakuhle entlokweni yakho. Kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuba ulale. Ngokuchasene noko, kuya kufuneka ubenoxolo lwengqondo kunye neekhonsepthi ozifuna ukuba zilungiswe kakuhle kwaye zifundwe.
Xa uphambi kwamaphepha, kwaye njengoko ufunda imibuzo eyahlukeneyo, siqinisekile ukuba izitshixo azizukuvela. Endaweni, kwingqondo yakho uya kuba nayo ngcamango ozifundileyo kwiintsuku ezidlulileyo. Kucacile ukuba baya kuba sisiqulatho esifanelekileyo sokudlula.
Nangona iibhloksi zihlala zingaphantsi okanye ziphantsi, gcinani engqondweni ukuba ngumbandela weentsholongwane. Sukuba nexhala ngabo. Kuya kufuneka uye kwiimviwo ngendlela ezolileyo kunye nemixholo ngaphambili wafunda ngeyona ndlela ichanekileyo.