Kukho abantu abachitha ixesha elininzi lobomi babo befunda izinto abangazithandiyo ukuzifundela okanye ukusebenza ngezinto abazithiyileyo. Aba bantu okanye mhlawumbi nawe, lixesha elinzima ntsasa nganye xa ialam ikhala kwaye uphuma ebhedini usazi ukuba iya kuba lusuku oluzakukwenza ube nomsindo kwaye ukhathazeke kungekudala okanye kamva… Ngubani ofuna ukuphila ngolu hlobo ngalo lonke ixesha? Ngaba uyaqonda ngenene ukuba umsebenzi wakho okanye izifundo ozenzayo azenzelwanga wena?
Eyona nto ixhaphakileyo kukuba kuthatha kancinci yamkele ukuba obu bomi ubuphilayo ayibubo obonelisayo, kodwa ukuyenza yeyona nto ikhululekileyo onokuyenza, kuba inyathelo elilandelayo iya kuba kukujonga izisombululo zokuziva ungcono kwaye ukwazi ukukhokela ubomi obukwenza uzive uphelele.
Akukho sizathu sokwamkela into ongayifuniyo, ukufumana isibindi esaneleyo sokweyisa iinkolelo zakho zokuzimela kunye nokunye, ukuze ukwazi ukuleqa iphupha lakho. Ndiyenzile, kwaye namhlanje ndonwabile ukuyenza. Ngaba uyafuna ukulandela indlela efanayo? Ewe, ungaphoswa ziimpawu ezikuxelela ukuba imisebenzi yakho okanye izifundo zakho azikonelisi ... khumbula ukuba ubomi bungaphezulu kokufumana imali yokuhlawula amatyala. Nyaniseka kwisiqu sakho.
Uhlala usecaleni
Xa usemsebenzini owuthiyileyo okanye uphakathi kwezinye zezifundo owaziyo ukuba aziyi kukuyisa ndawo, uya kuqaphela ukuba ubushushu bakho butshintsha njani kwaye uya kuhlala ucaphuka kwaye ungenakucimeka. Ungasoloko usecaleni nabantu abakufutshane kuwe kuba uthatha uxinzelelo lwekholeji okanye usebenza nawe ekhaya. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka kuwe rhoqo, kuya kufuneka uvavanye imeko okuyo ngoku, kunokwenzeka ukuba umsebenzi wakho okanye izifundo zakho zikuchaphazele ngakumbi kunokuba kufanelekile kwaye kufuneka utshintshe indlela yakho.
Awunakufumana xesha lakho
Uyakhumbula ukuba wawunokwenza nini ezo zinto uzithandayo kwaye zikwanelise njengomntu? Uninzi lwabantu lunexesha elipheleleyo leeyure ezingama-40 (okanye nangaphezulu) ngeveki kwaye kufuneka balichithe eofisini. Kodwa ukuba wonwabile ngomsebenzi wakho, uya kuyazi indlela yokufumana ixesha kunye namandla okwenza izinto ozithandayo., kodwa ukuba awuziva mnandi ngomsebenzi wakho okanye iiyure zakho zokufunda, amandla akho aya kuncipha kwaye uya kufuna kuphela ukuphumla ngenxa yokudinwa kwengqondo oziva ngathi. Umsebenzi owenzayo yonke imihla kufuneka ube luhlobo lobomi ofuna ukuhlala kulo, oko kukuthi ... ukuba awuthandi umsebenzi wakho, ngathi awubonwabeli ubomi, kodwa ukuba uyabuthanda ... wena ayisoze iphinde isebenze kuba ayizukuthetha ukuba awuzami kwenza msebenzi wakho wemihla ngemihla.
Awulali kakuhle
Ngamanye amaxesha imithambo-luvo yosuku olulandelayo ayisivumeli ukuba siphumle, nto leyo ethetha ukuba kuyakufuneka ujongane nosuku ongaluthandiyo kwaye ubuthongo buya kuphazamiseka kuba Kunzima kuwe ukuba unqamle ukuphumla. Ukuba uziva uxinezelekile, awunakho ukulala okusemgangathweni, okuluphawu olucacileyo lokuba kufuneka wenze utshintsho ebomini bakho ngokukhawuleza.
Abahlobo bakho kunye nosapho bayakuxelela ukuba awonwabanga
Usenokungafuni ukuyibona kodwa yinto eqatshelweyo nebonakalayo kwindalo esingqongileyo. Abantu abakuthandayo nabakujikelezayo banokubona ukungcangcazela kwakho kunye namandla akho. Ukuba bazama ukuthetha nawe malunga nesi sihloko, musa ukukuphepha... bamamele, mhlawumbi kuya kufuneka uqale ucinge ukuba baninzi abakuxelela, kungenxa yokuba banyanisile.
Abantu osebenza nabo bakwenza uzive ungalunganga
Ukuba uziva usoyika okanye unxunguphalo malunga nokuya emsebenzini ngenxa yabalingane onabo okanye umphathi wakho, kungenxa yokuba kukho into engalunganga kwaye kuyakufuneka ufumane isisombululo malunga noku. Sukuchitha iiyure ezingama-40 ngeveki nabantu ongenakuma nabo okanye uya kuba nemiphumo emibi yezempilo. Ukuba awuziva mnandi kwaye uneengcinga ezikwenza uzisole, zama ukuthetha ngalento nomntu omthembileyo kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, fumana isisombululo sokuba ngcono. Kodwa ungaze ulahle ithemba lokulandela amaphupha akho.