Ukufumana umsebenzi olungele iprofayile yakho yobungcali kunokuba nzima ukwenza, kodwa kunokuba nzima nangakumbi ukoyisa okanye ukugqwesa kudliwanondlebe lomsebenzi ungazithembanga. Zombini zifuna unyamezelo kunye nomyolelo ongenakoyiswa. Kodwa kwakhona, Kuyimfuneko ukuba zisebenze ezinye iindlela ukuze ube nempumelelo eqinisekileyo.
Kuzo zonke izinto ezinokubangela uxinzelelo kubomi bomntu, ukufumana umsebenzi yeyona nto ikuluhlu oluphezulu. Kukho imisebenzi, kodwa baninzi abafake izicelo kwezi zithuba, ke ukuze ufumane umsebenzi kufuneka ubonakale phakathi kwabanye abantu.
Kananjalo kuya kufuneka ufumane umsebenzi ohambelana nezakhono onazo, kwaye oku kunokwenza ukuba kubenzima ngakumbi. Kodwa, Nje ukuba ufumene umsebenzi onokuthi ulungele iprofayile yakho yomsebenzi, kuya kufuneka uphumelele udliwanondlebe. Kwaye ukuba ukwanguye umntu ohlangabezana neemfuno zomsebenzi, unokuziva uxinezeleke nangakumbi. Ke ngoko, kufuneka uzilungiselele kakuhle kwaye uloyiko kunye noxinzelelo zingakuthathi. Ngaba uyafuna ukwandisa ukuzithemba kwakho? Landela ezi ngcebiso.
Lawula i-nervous tics
I-tic tic iyenzeka kuye ngamnye wethu, kungenxa yoko kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sikwazi ukuyilawula kwaye siyazi. Eyona ixhaphakileyo kukuluma iinzipho okanye ukuhambisa naliphi na ilungu okanye mhlawumbi ukubetha iinyawo emhlabeni. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uye ekhaya uyokwenza udliwanondlebe, kuya kufuneka uqaphele ezi tics ukuzigcina ziphantsi kolawulo, ukuze ubonakalise isimo esicocekileyo ngakumbi kudliwanondlebe.
Ukuphefumla ngokunzulu
Ukuba uziva ngathi izandla zakho ziyajuluka okanye intliziyo yakho ibetha kakhulu, amanqanaba oxinzelelo lwakho angangxola. Iingcamango zakho zihamba ngokukhawuleza kwaye unokuziva ungalunganga. Kwezi meko, eyona nto unokuyenza kukugxila ekuphefumlweni kwakho, ke uya kuba uvumela ingqondo yakho ukuba igxile kwaye ithathe izigqibo ngokuzithemba ukuphendula kakuhle imibuzo umntu angakubuza yona.
Musa ukucinga ngezinto ezingekhoyo
Xa ungazi isiphumo sento kwaye kukho ukungaqiniseki okuninzi, kuyindalo ukuba uqale ucinge ngesiphumo, nokuba sihle okanye asibi, kodwa uwaqonde la mabali asentloko ayinyani (kuba akukho mntu ulaziyo ikamva) , Unokukunceda uqonde ukuba intloko yakho icinga njani izinto ngomfanekiso ngqondweni omkhulu. Kungcono ugxile kwinyani kwaye uphinde uzithembe. Yamkele inyani yokuba awusoze uyazi ukuba udliwanondlebe luhambe njani, nokuba ungabanjwa emsebenzini ngamanye amaxesha awunanto yakwenza nodliwanondlebe (Usenokuba wenze udliwanondlebe oluhle kodwa baninzi kakhulu abagqatswa abaneprofayile elungileyo).
Ziqhelanise neempendulo ezinokubakho
Kuyinyani ukuba awulazi uhlobo lwemibuzo abaza kukubuza yona kudliwanondlebe, kodwa unokuthelekelela eminye yayo kwaye uphendule ngokwakho ukuze ngale ndlela, ube nokuzithemba kumagama akho. Kuyimfuneko ukuba uyazi inkampani, uxanduva lomsebenzi abawunikayo kunye nento onokuthi ube negalelo ngayo emsebenzini wakho, Ke ukuba bakubuza le mibuzo, uya kuziva ukhuseleke ngakumbi kwaye uzithembile ukuyiphendula.
Ngokuziqhelanisa neempendulo zakho ngokuvakalayo ungalukhupha uxinzelelo oziva ngalo, ungacela umhlobo okanye ilungu losapho ukuba likuncede uzilungiselele (uluvo lwabo luya kukunceda ukuba ukwazi ukuphucula ukusilela konxibelelwano kwaye ube nengxelo eyakhayo) okanye kananjalo, Wena ungayenza phambi kwesipili ukuze wazi ukuba yeyiphi na ekufuneka uyiphucule.
Cinga ngezinto ezintle ezithethwa ngabanye ngawe
Mhlawumbi umntu owakhe wakukhankanya ukuba unentando enkulu okanye abahlobo bakho bakuxelele kwakanye ukuba bayayithanda amandla akho okusombulula iingxaki ngokukhawuleza nangokufanelekileyo, into ekunceda ukuba ukwazi ukusebenza njengeqela kwaye uphantsi koxinzelelo. Usenokuxelelwa nokuba uneengcinga ezintle ezinceda abanye ukuba bazive belungile okanye uxanduva lwakho emsebenzini. Cinga ngazo zonke izinto ezilungileyo okhe waxelelwa zona kwaye ujonge kwezi zincomo Baza kukunceda uzive uzithembile kwaye uzithembile kudliwanondlebe.
Ewe kunjalo, ungalibali ukubona ngempumelelo impumelelo yakho kudliwanondlebe kwaye yonke into izakuhamba kakuhle.
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