Ukuba ngumntu oyilayo yinto exabiseke kakhulu namhlanje., kuba zombini ukufunda nokwenza umsebenzi, ubuchule bokuyila bunokukunceda ufumane elona candelo lililo kwaye abanye babone ukuba uqhuba kakuhle kangakanani kuyo yonke into oyicebisayo. Kukho abantu abanobuchule obuninzi kwaye abangaqondi ukuba bakwimpilo yabo. Ke namhlanje ndifuna ukuthetha nawe ngezinto ezithile ezenziwa ngabantu bonke bokudala.
Ngale ndlela, ukuba uyaqonda ukuba ungumntu onobuchule bokuyila, ungafumana okona kuninzi kuwo ukubonisa amandla akho apheleleyo. Kwaye ukuba awucingi ukuba uyila kodwa uyazi ukuba kuya kufuneka unike amandla ukuze ubenako (sonke sinokuba njalo), Jonga ezi zinto zilandelayo ziyilayo zenziwe ngabantu ukuba bazibandakanye kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla.
Uyakuthanda ukudlala
Abantu aboyilayo abaphulukani nomdla wabo kumdlalo, baziva benomnqweno wokudlala njengaxa babengabantwana. Umntu omdala onobuchule usabandakanyeka kwimidlalo yehlabathi yohlobo oluthile, banokwenza iihlabathi ngobugcisa, isayensi okanye izinto ezizizalisayo Ulwazi kunye nefantasy. Ihlabathi labo liyinto engacingekiyo yiyo loo nto bebakhokelela kwezona mbono ziyiliweyo, ngaba uziva uchongiwe?
Ungumntu onomdla
Abantu aboyilayo nabo banomdla kwaye oku kuza kuluncedo ukuze bakwazi ukumakisha umendo wabo kakuhle kokubini kwizifundo nasemsebenzini. Ngokuzinzisa ukungazi kwabo, banokuqonda ngakumbi. Bayaziqonda izinto phambi kwabanye, bafumane iinkcukacha abanye abangazihoyiyo ... intuition yabo ibanceda ukuba babazi abantu ngcono kwaye babenze bazinze ngakumbi kwaye bazinxibelelaniso olusempilweni.
Kufuneka uchithe ixesha uwedwa
Ubulolo bunokuba lixesha elinyanzelekileyo lokucinga kunye nokufumana ezakho iingcinga. Ukuba wedwa kusivumela ukuba sizazi kwaye sizifumanise. Kwiimeko ezininzi ezona zimvo zibalaseleyo zinokuza emva kokumamela wena. Sonke kufuneka sichithe ixesha sedwa kube kanyeYeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokunxibelelana nezinto zethu zangaphakathi kwaye wazi kakuhle ukuba sinantoni engqondweni, uyayithanda into oyithethayo kuwe? Ngaba uyayithanda imibono ethi qatha engqondweni? Bhala phantsi!
Uthanda yonke into oyenzayo
Umntu oyilayo akalazi igama elithi "isithukuthezi." Awusoze wakruquka kuba ingqondo yakho ihlala isenza izinto ezintsha okanye izimvo ezimangalisayo. Amava obomi (kokulungileyo nokubi) ayabazalisa kwaye abathuthuzele. Ukuba ungumntu oyilayo uya kuwuthanda umsebenzi wakho kuba uya kuba nakho ukubona icala elilungileyo kuyo yonke into oyenzayo ... umthambo wakho wokuyila uhlala uvuliwe.
Uphupha emini kwaye uyayithanda
Ukuba ungumntu odala izinto, uya kuba ngomnye wabo bantu benza into kwaye ngequbuliso bayeke kwaye bayeke ingqondo yakho "ibhabhe." Ukuphupha emini yinto othanda ukuyenza, ikwanceda ukuba ubonakalise. Xa uthatha ikhefu lokuqonda ufumanisa ukuba ukucinga kwakho kuyaphucuka kwaye uyakwazi ukufumana okungaphezulu kuwe. Umphathi wakho uyawaxabisa la maxesha ngenxa yokuba ayakunceda ukuba ube nobuchule ngakumbi!
Ekuphandeni rhoqo kwamava amatsha
Abantu bokudala bayathanda ukuba namava amatsha kwaye yiyo loo nto bevulelekile kwilizwe lokwenyani, bafuna ukufumanisa yonke into abanayo ubomi kubo. La mava aya kubanceda ukuba bacinge ngokwahlukileyo, into ebalulekileyo ekukwazi ukuba nomoya wokuyila. Amava atyebisayo ahlala khona, kokukhona ubuchule bomntu buya kukhuliswa.
Ungumntu onovakalelo
Umntu onobuchule unokuba yi-extrovert okanye i-introvert, kodwa into aqiniseke ngayo nayo: inobuzaza. Umntu oyilayo ngumntu o-ethe-ethe. Bajonga, baziva kwaye baqonde okusingqongileyo ngendlela ebuthathaka ngakumbi, babona izinto ngendlela eyahlukileyo kwaye oku kubangela ubuchule babo.
Kodwa into elungileyo yile Umntu woyilo uyazi ukuba uvakalelo akufuneki luthathe iimvakalelo zabo. Ke ngoko, ulumke ungavumeli iimvakalelo zakho zikukhukhule ngayo yonke ingcaciso yolwazi oyifumanayo enokukuchaphazela. Enkosi ngomsebenzi wokuyila, uyakwazi ukwetyisa onke la mandla kunye nokulawula iimvakalelo ukuze zingamlawuli.