Kukho amaxesha abaluleke kakhulu kwi uvavanyo, kodwa kwangaxeshanye, zihlala zikhona. Ngaba ukhe wanamathela kwi uviwo? Ngamaxesha amaninzi, le mvakalelo ayinanto yakwenza nokungabikho kwamalungiselelo kodwa ngoxinzelelo olugqithisileyo, imithambo-luvo, ukungazithembi kunye noloyiko lokusilela. Ungazenza njani kwezi ntlobo zeemeko? Endaweni yokuxakaniseka kumbuzo othile, kulungile ukuba udlulele kwelinye icandelo loviwo, impendulo yakhe uyazi kakuhle, kwaye uqale ukuyibhala. Oku kuyakunceda ukuba ungabanjwa kwisangqa esibi sokuthandabuza.
Oko kukuthi, ngelixa sifunda umxholo Ukwenza uviwo okanye senza umsebenzi wesikolo wasekhaya, kufuneka siqale ngokwenza loo misebenzi inzima ngakumbi kuthi ukuthintela umkhwa wokuzibekel 'amangomso, ngokuchaseneyo, ngexesha loviwo kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqala uvavanyo ngokuphendula loo macandelo anempendulo yawo. uyazi. Ngale ndlela, ulisebenzisa kakuhle ixesha.
Nje ukuba uphendule le mibuzo uyaziyo, phinda ufunde ingxelo yecandelo olishiye lingenanto uze uzame ukubeka into oyaziyo ngalo. Ukuba ngenene awuziva ukhuselekile ngempendulo, kwaye ucinga ukuba into onokuyithetha ayinikeli galelo kuyo nayiphi na into enxulumene ngqo nombuzo, yishiya impendulo ingenanto.
Xa ubambekile kuvavanyo, thatha umoya. Ukuba ufuna iphepha elimdaka ukuze ukwazi ukwenza uhlobo oluthile lwesichasiselo okanye uyilo lokuqala, lucele utitshala alufunele.