Ndifuna ukukhuphisana, yintoni ekufuneka yenziwe? (I)

Abantu abaninzi baneenjongo zabo ekufumaneni i- Isikhundla sabasebenzi bakarhulumente zikarhulumente, kwaye baqhubeka nephupha labo de balifezekise. Ukuchasa Akululanga, besikhe satsho amaxesha amaninzi, kodwa akukho qhinga ngaphandle kokwazi kakuhle into oyifunayo kunye nokwenza iinzame. Kungenzeka ukuba kwenzeke kuwe ukuba ubucinga ngayo iinyanga, ucinga ukuba kufanelekile chasa, unoqeqesho kwezemfundo kunye namandla okuba awuyi kuswela, uyanyamezela kwaye unoxanduva, nangona kunjalo, ukukhankanywa nje ngokulula kwegama inkcaso kukwenza uzive ulahlekile ngenxa yokuba ungazi ukuqala njani. Sikunika imikhondo malunga namanyathelo ngaphambi kokuhlala phambi kwe-ajenda.

Ukuba ucacile ukuba yintoni inkcaso uya kuzibonakalisa, sele uneenkomo ezininzi; Ngokuchasene noko, ukuba lo ngowona mqobo uphambili kuya kufuneka uvavanye kwaye uhlalutye ezinye izinto. Ngaphambi kokuya phambili, kufuneka ubeke phambili izinto ezinje ngawe qeqesho kwezemfundo. Olu lwazi lubaluleke kakhulu, kuba kukho iindawo apho kufuneka isiqinisekiso esithile, kwaye ukuba awunaso, akunakwenzeka ukuba ubanqwenele. Fumana malunga neemfuno zemfundo kuqala.

Kukho nenyani Indawo yesikwere onqwenela njalo. Amaxesha amaninzi kunokunqweneleka uya kubona iindawo ezingaphandle kwephondo lakho kwaye zimbalwa kakhulu kufutshane nesixeko sakho. Kuya kufuneka uphande ngomvuzo oza kukuhambelana ngokwe- Udidi lobungcali apho uziveza khona, kwaye kuya kufuneka uhlalutye ngononophelo, ikhaltyhuleyitha ngesandla xa kukho imfuneko, ukuba inyani yokuba ngaphandle kwesixeko sakho iya kukubuyekeza okanye (akunakwenzeka ukuba uthutho nolwakhiwo lwezindlu, njl.) ukusukela ukuba awuthathi Ngokukhawuleza unokuzifumanisa unomdla wokuchitha ixesha kwaye mhlawumbi imali.

Ezi zinto zimbini kufuneka ubenazo Kucace gca ngaphambi kokuba uqhubeke. Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kuqhubeka ukukunika ngaphezulu iingcebiso.