Uninzi lwethu luyakhalaza, ngaphezulu kwesihlandlo esinye, malunga ubusuku obubi Esidlula kuzo ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Nokuba kungenxa yemithambo-luvo yethu, kuba sifunde kakhulu, okanye ngenxa yokudinwa nje, ubusuku apho singalaliyo okanye singalali kakuhle bunokuba bubi kakhulu kwimpilo yethu. Yintoni esinokuyenza?
Kukho ingcebiso eya kuba luncedo kuwe kwaye, kwangaxeshanye, yenye yezona ngxaki zibalulekileyo nezintsonkothileyo oza kudibana nazo: imithambo-luvo. Indlela yokuphila esinayo ngoku inokubangela ukuphazamiseka okunokuphuma esandleni. Ngokucacileyo, uxinzelelo yenye yemicimbi ekufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo ngakumbi.
Kwimeko apho silala phantsi unengcinezelo enkulu, Kuya kufuneka sijongane nemithambo-luvo emininzi enokuthi igxininiswe ukuba asizisombululi. Eyona nto icetyiswayo kwezi zihlandlo kukuchonga ingxaki kwaye usebenze ukuze isonjululwe ngeyona ndlela ifanelekileyo. Ayizukuphumla kuphela isazela sethu, kodwa kwanemithambo-luvo yethu.
Kwelinye icala, sinokuthatha ezinye ipilisi ukusinceda sizole, nangona lo ingumcimbi owahlukileyo ngamanye amaxesha ofuna uncedo lweengcali Ukuba ufika kweli nqanaba, ngekhe kubi ukuya kugqirha akuncede.
Imithambo kunye nobusuku obubi zezinye zeentshaba ezimbi zabafundi. Thatha izinto ikholma. Ngale ndlela uya kuba nakho ukuphumeza iinjongo ozibekele zona. Kwaye okuninzi.