Xa uthatha isigqibo sokuba uza kulungiselela inkcaso (nokuba yintoni), nangaphambi kokuba uqale ukufunda okanye uhlambe usapho lwakho ngovuyo ngokuluxelela, uya kuba sele ungumchasi. Akukho lula ukuba ngumchasi, kwaye akupheleli nje "ekupaseni ezinye iimviwo." Ukuba ngumchasi kuhlala uhleli, kukufumana injongo kunye nokufuna ukuya kuyo yonke indlela. Isiphelo onokufikelela kuso ngokuzimisela ukuba ubeka ingqondo yakho kuso, ukuba ufuna ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho kwaye ube nomsebenzi osisigxina wobomi bonke.
Ukuqala ukufundisisa kubonakala ngathi akunzima, kodwa kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba kanjani, ntoni, nini kwaye nabani. Ukongeza kokwazi ukuba kuya kufuneka njani, kwaye kuya kufuneka uhlale ukhuthazekile ngokwaneleyo ukufikelela kwiinjongo zakho kwaye amahla ndinyuka onokuthi uhlangane nawo endleleni zizithintelo nje ezincinci ezingakususiyo kwinjongo yakho nangaliphi na ixesha. Ukuba uthathe isigqibo ngokuzithandela ukuba ube ngumchasi, akuyi kufuneka usilele kwimigaqo yakho.
Yiyo loo nto namhlanje Ndifuna ukukunika iingcebiso ukuze ungasweli inkuthazo ngalo lonke ixesha. Kwaye ukuze ube nenkuthazo elungileyo, kuya kufuneka uyazi indlela yokwenza izinto, yiyo loo nto namhlanje ndifuna ukuthetha nawe ngayo yonke le nto.
Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyazi ukuba ukuthatha isigqibo sokuphikisana sesinye sezigqibo ezibaluleke kakhulu onokuthi uzenze ebomini bakho, kuba nangona yonke into yexeshana incitshisiwe kuxinzelelo noxinzelelo, ekuhambeni kwexesha inokuba yinto entle sebenza ngempumelelo enkosi kuyo yonke imizamo yakho esifundweni kunye nokupasa inkcaso. Kodwa xa uphakathi kwinkqubo yokufunda, ukuhlala ukhuthazekile ayisiyonto ilula kwaye ilula kwaphela.
Iimvakalelo zakho zinokukunceda okanye zikubeke kwikhondo lesithintelo, ke kuya kufuneka ulumke ngaphezu kwayo yonke loo nto kwaye uzame ukufumana iimvakalelo zakho zokukunceda ukuze yonke into iye apho kufuneka iye khona. Kuqhelekile ukuba ngaxa lithile ukhe ube namaxesha okuwa okanye ucinga ukuba awusoze ufikelele kwinjongo, kodwa ngokuzimisela nokuzithemba kuwe, uyakuqonda ukuba indlela ayinzima kangako.
Khumbula ukuba ukuphumelela Kuhlala kusiliwa ngasemva ukufezekisa iinjongo, kwaye ukuba uyakwazi ukuhlala ukhuthazeka ukuyenza, amaxesha anzima ahlala kwiinkumbulo zokuxelela abantu ukuba bachaze ubumnandi bakho.
Into yokuqala endikucebisayo ukuba ufezekise iinjongo zakho kwaye uhlale ukhuthazekile ngalo lonke ixesha kukuba wena Khawufane ucinge ukuba sele udlulile kwinkcaso kwaye unendawo yakho. Ukujonga iinjongo zakho esele zifezekisiwe kuya kukunceda ukuba ubone kufutshane, kwaye ufumane indlela elungileyo yokufezekisa. Yiba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wokuba unethemba, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kwenza into engenakwenzeka ukufezekisa.
Isimo sakho sengqondo siya kudlala indima ephambili, Kuya kufuneka ugcwalise ingqondo yakho ngemiyalezo eyakhayo kunye nenkuthazo eya kuwe, ukuba kukho imfuneko ubeke imiyalezo yokuzithumela kuyo yonke indawo ukuze uyifunde ngexesha lokuhla. Ndithembe kuba bayasebenza, kwaye uya kuthanda ukuyifunda nanini na xa ufuna ngokwakho!
Kukwabalulekile ukuba ube unenye into ecace gca: Ukufunda ezinye iinkcaso kuthetha ukuzincama ebomini. La madini aya kuxhomekeka kwindlela ophila ngayo, ukuba ungumama okanye utata, ukuba unezinto ezininzi ozithandayo, ukuba uyathanda ukuphuma nabahlobo ... Ukuba ufuna ukufezekisa imikhwa elungileyo njengomchasi, kuya kufuneka wenze uncame izinto ukuze ukwazi ukulandela isicwangciso sakho sokufunda.
Kweli nqanaba lobomi bakho iya kuba lelona xesha linzima ebomini bakho bonke kwaye ngakumbi ukuba unabantwana nomsebenzi wokudibanisa izifundo zakho kunye nazo. Kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba inkuthazo kule meko iya kubaluleka, kodwa ngaphezulu kwako konke, kuya kufuneka uvavanye ukuba ingaba kulungile na kuwe ukuba ubonise inkcaso okanye ingaba luxinzelelo olukhulu kunye noxinzelelo kubomi bakho bangoku. Sisigqibo sobuqu esingasoloko kulula ukusithatha, kodwa uyakuhlala ukholelwa kuwe.
Kodwa khumbula, ukuba ufika kuyo, ngelinye ixesha kuyakufuneka uzincame oya kuthi uziva ungalunganga okanye utyhafile, kodwa iya kuba ngalaa maxesha aphambili apho kuya kufuneka ukhumbule impumelelo yakho, uzibonise ngokwakho kwakhona ngenjongo yakho Uzuze kwaye ufunde amanqaku akho-ukukhuthaza ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Nangona ndikucebisa ukuba usuku ngalunye lokufunda, ekupheleni kosuku uyazonwabisa ukuba uyathanda ... iya kufana nomvuzo omncinci wemihla ngemihla.