Unokuba neengxaki ezimbalwa kwizifundo zakho, kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba awuyi kuba nakho ukuqhubela phambili. Ayiloxesha lokuqala ukuba abantu abaziwayo kufuneka banike tshintsha kunjalo ebomini bakho ukuze ufezekise impumelelo. Umbuzo kukuba kutheni ungayenzi? Ukuba umba othile awukuhambeli kakuhle kwizifundo zakho, ungasoloko usenza utshintsho kwindlela oziphethe ngayo, de ufezekise eyona uyithandayo.
Zibandakanye kwakhona ngokwakho kulula ngakumbi kunokuba kubonakala. Ngokusisiseko, konke okufuneka ukwenze kukutshintsha ezo zinto singazithandiyo. Umzekelo, ukuba ucinga ukuba ishedyuli yakho yangoku ayisiyiyo efanelekileyo, unethuba lokuyiguqula ukuze ilungele indlela ophila ngayo. Isenokuba yile nto uyifunayo.
Zininzi imizekelo malunga nabantu ekuye kwafuneka batshintshe ngokupheleleyo ubomi babo ukuze baphumelele. Nokuba kukwikhondo lakhe lobungcali, okanye kwizifundo zakhe. Kucacile ukuba balandele ikhondo elingalunganga lokufezekisa eyona nto bayithandayo. Into ethi, ekugqibeleni, ibengcono kunokuba bebecinga.
Ukusuka apha siyakukhuthaza, ukuba awuyithandi le nto uyenzayo, zenzeni nizihlaziye. Isenokuba yile nto iyimfuneko. Kuya kufuneka uthathe inyathelo eliya phambili. Thatha umngcipheko, kwaye ujonge iziphumo. Iindaba ezimnandi? Mhlawumbi yile nto ikwenza ukuba uphumelele. Okanye amabakala amahle, kunokuba.