Khathalela ingqondo yakho, hayi kuphela kwimicimbi yobungcali, kodwa nakwicala lobuqu. Nokuba uxakeke kangakanani, nokuba uxakeke kangakanani, zenzele ixesha. Ungayinyamekela njani ifayile yakho engqondweni?
1. Nciphisa uxinzelelo
Akunjalo kwakona uxinzelelo Kuyinto engalunganga, nangona kunjalo, xa uhlala nemvakalelo eqhubekayo yokonganyelwa ziziganeko zangaphandle, usokola kakhulu. Yenza into yokunciphisa uxinzelelo. Umzekelo, lungisa uhlengahlengiso kwishedyuli yakho ngokubeka izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka. Unokufumana ixesha lokuzola ngokuphucula ingqondo ngokuzola ngokwenza i-yoga, ingqondo, ii-Pilates, okanye i-Tai Chi. Unokukhuthaza nokucamngca.
2. Ubuchule bokuyila ngokupheleleyo
Ukuphuhlisa ingqondo yokuyila kufuneka uzondle ngezinto ezingaphandle ezikuvumela ukuba ufumane izimvo ezintsha ngokutya kwenkcubeko: u kufunda, iholo yemidlalo, umculo, i-cinema, ubugcisa, uyilo… Ungazimanya neqela eliyintloko apho ungabamba iingxoxo kwizihloko ezinomdla.
3. Imvakalelo yokuhlekisa
El u kuhleka ayonwabisi intliziyo kuphela, kodwa nengqondo. Izimvo ezininzi zihamba ngcono xa ukwimeko yethemba elibalulekileyo. Uyikhuthaza njani ingqiqo yoburharha? Umzekelo, yonwabela uthotho lukamabonwakude oluhlekisayo. Yonwabele ii-anecdotes kunye namabali akhululekileyo.
4. Ziqhelanise nokufota
Ziqhelanise umdlalo. Nabani na omthandayo. Umzekelo, ungathatha ikhosi yokufota kuba olu lwimi lubonakalayo luyila ngokungafezekisi imo yendalo kwimifanekiso onokwabelana ngayo kwi-Instagram. Ukufunda ngokuqhubekayo sisiyobisi sempilo yokunyamekela ingqondo ngokuphumelela kwimiceli mngeni emitsha.
5. Ubudlelwane boluntu
Indawo ekuhlala kuyo ibalulekile ekunyamekeleni ingqondo ngokwenza izakhono zentlalo, ubuqabane, uvelwano, unxibelelwano oluqinisekileyo kunye nokusebenzisana. Ungakhuthaza ukuziqhelanisa nemisebenzi yasemva komsebenzi. Unokucebisa ngokwakhiwa kweqela ngezimvo kwiintlanganiso zomsebenzi wenkampani oyinxalenye yayo.
Ubudlelwane bezentlalo babalulekile ekukhuliseni ingqondo nasekukhuliseni ubuchule bokuyila kuba izimvo zabanye abantu zomeleza ukomelela kwakho. Njengoko ichaza UPlato, ezona zimvo zibalaseleyo zezi zizelwe ekukhanyeni kwengxoxo phakathi kwabahlobo.
6. Funda ulwimi
Funda isiNgesi, umzekelo, yenza ingqondo yakho isebenze ukuze unqobe imingeni rhoqo Ngalo ukuphucula umgangatho wakho wokufunda kunye nokuqonda ngomlomo ulwimi oluvulela iingcango kungekuphela kwinqanaba lobungcali kodwa nakwinqanaba lomntu. Ungaya kwilayibrari yefilimu ukuze ubone iifilimu kwinguqulelo yazo yoqobo.
7. Fumana ifilosofi
Ifilosofi ijongana nemicimbi ebaluleke kakhulu ebomini kunye noluntu. Ke ngoko, ngengcinga yababhali abakhulu, umzekelo, uSocrates, Kanto, Descartes, Hegel, Heidegger, Hume okanye Kant ungabonakalisa ezona mxholo uphezulu. Ngokufunda ifilosofi unokuvula ukucinga kwakho.
Ubuye aye kwiintlanganiso, kwizifundo, iintetho zencwadi Kwaye kuthetha ukuba ikuvumela ukuba uqeqeshe ngendlela ozifundisayo ngokwenziwa kolwazi olutsha.