Amaxesha amaninzi sizibuza umbuzo wokuba ingaba izakubakhona kusini na iplugi kwizichasi, ukuba umntu uyabazi abantu abavela kwinkundla kwaye inkundla inakho "ukudlulisa isandla sakhe" kuye ngokuchasene (ukuya kwinqanaba lokufumana indawo ngaloo ndlela).
Omnye umbuzo esihlala sizibuza wona ngowokuba, ngaba kwiimviwo zomlomo (imixholo yeengxoxo, izifundo zetyala, ...) ngaba zinenjongo okanye akunjalo, nokuba ziyathabatheka ngumbono wokuqala esiwanika wona, okanye kuxhomekeke ekubeni bayasithanda ngcono okanye okubi ngakumbi, ukuphumelela uviwo okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ukusilela kuthi.
Ngokwenyani, iinkundla kufuneka zingabinanjongo kuwo onke amatyala, nangona amaxesha amaninzi oko kungenzeki kwaye umbono kukuba baninzi abantu abangonwabanga kuba becinga ukuba benze kakuhle ngokwaneleyo ukuba bavume kwaye abanye abantu abangakhange bathethe nto. ukufaneleka, bayifumene imvume.
Ukubonisa into enye okanye enye yinto enzima kakhulu, kunyanzelekile ukuba wonke umntu angonwabi ukuba le meko ingangqinwa kwaye umntu angasebenza "ngamandla" ukuphumeza ukuphathwa ngokulinganayo, kodwa ke yiyo loo nto singakwazi ukufumana iinkundla ngokufanayo, apho iya kuba ziinkundla kunye "neenkundla." Siyazi ukuba kufuneka senze konke okusemandleni ethu kwaye ukuba inkundla ayijonganga nto kwaye akukho nto sinokuzixhasa kule ndlela, ke masibe ngabona baphambili kutyelelo olulandelayo.