Ukukhetha kunokuba lixesha elinzima kulutsha oluninzi, kuba ikamva labo lisemngciphekweni. Nangona kuyinyani ukuba amabakala akufuneki abonakalise ukugqwesa kwabafundi kuba kubonisiwe kwizinto ezininzi zangaphandle (imithambo-luvo, ukungalali kakuhle, izifo, njl. kuphela kwendlela uluntu ekufanele ukubala ngayo umndilili wolutsha kwaye ngale ndlela banokuqalisa indlela entsha yokufunda.
Iimviwo zokukhetha ngokungathandabuzekiyo umzuzu ophawula ngaphambi nasemva ebomini babantu abaninzi abancinci. Kungenxa yoko le nto kungafuneki ukuba ithathwe kancinci kwaye ukulungiselela eli xesha kufuneka kwenziwe kwangaphambi kwexesha. Ukulungiselela akufuneki kuphela ukuba kube yimfundo, kodwa kunye neemvakalelo. Kodwa ungaluphumelela njani uviwo lokukhetha?
Ukulungiselela kakuhle kwizifundo
Vuma ngokunyaniseka
Akukho ndlela inyanisekileyo yokupasa iimviwo engadingi mzamo, ukuzinikela kunye nokuzingisa. Kucacile ukuba zikho ezinye iindlela ezingaphantsi zomthetho zokuzama ukuphumelela iimviwo zokukhetha kunye nokupasa eli nqanaba, njengokukopela kwiimviwo. Kodwa Olu khetho alufanelekanga kwaye uya kubeka umgudu omkhulu kunye neminyaka emininzi yoqeqesho.
Ukuba ubhaqwe ukukopa, uya kuba ngaphandle kokukhetha kwaye yonke imizamo yakho iya kuhamba ngaphezulu. Kananjalo, kufanelekile ukuba ugqithe kuloo mithambo-luvo xa unokubanjwa? Eyona ndlela ilungileyo, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, yokupasa iimviwo zokukhetha kukunyaniseka, kwaye ... Uxolo lwengqondo luyakukunceda ufumane amabakala amahle.
Ukulungiselela kakuhle
Ewe, ukuba ufuna ukufumana iziphumo ezilungileyo kwiimviwo zakho zokukhetha, kuya kufuneka uqale ngokucinga ngokulungiselela okuhle kwangaphambili. Musa ukulinda de kube ngumzuzu wokugqibela ukuqala ukufunda kunye nolungileyo iindlela zokufunda. Uya kudinga ulungelelwaniso kunye nolwakhiwo kwizifundo zakho kwaye kuzo zonke izifundo zekhalenda yomsebenzi ukuze ngale ndlela, ukwazi ukufikelela kwi-ajenda yonke ngexesha, ngaphandle koxinzelelo, ngaphandle kokungxama nangaphandle kwexhala. Ngexesha uza kuba nakho ukufikelela kuyo yonke into, ukuba ulinda de kube ngumzuzu wokugqibela kunokwenzeka ukuba ungabinakho ukugubungela wonke umxholo.
Ukuba ucinga awuyi kuba nakho ukulungiselela iimviwo zakho wedwa, unokufumana iqela lokufunda okanye ujoyine isikolo. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba ufumane uhlobo lokufunda olulungele wena kwaye oluhamba kakuhle nobuntu bakho, kuba ngaloo ndlela uya kuba nakho ukufundisisa ngempumelelo yonke imixholo oza kuyiphanda ekukhetheni.
Ukulungiselela okuhle ngokweemvakalelo
Ngelixa kuyinyani ukuba ulungiselelo lwezifundo lubalulekile ukuze ukwazi ukuphumelela iimviwo, ulungiselelo olufanelekileyo lweemvakalelo luhamba kunye. Ukuba awuziva mnandi ngokwasemphefumlweni, awunyanzelekanga ukuba uzihluphe ngokufunda kuba uzakube uchitha ixesha okanye ungasebenzisi lonke ixesha onalo. Kuya kufuneka uphephe ukuchitha ixesha kunye namandla kuba ziya kukubangela unxunguphalo kunye nokungonwabi.
Ukuzola kunye nokuphumla
Ukuba ungomnye wabantu abahlala benovalo phambi koviwo, kubalulekile ukuba usebenze uzolile kwaye uziphumze ngaphakathi kuwe. Ngale ndlela kuphela apho uya kuba nakho ukulawula imithambo-luvo yakho phambi koviwo olubalulekileyo kwaye abadlaleli kuwe. Ngaba unokucinga ngokuchitha iinyanga ufundela iimviwo kwaye ngenxa yeemithambo zakho ushiyeke ungenanto kwaye awukwazi ukuphikisana nayo yonke into oyaziyo kuvavanyo? Ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuba yinto edanisayo kuwe.
Kungenxa yoko, nje ngokuba ufunda umxholo woviwo, funda iindlela zokuthomalalisa kunye nokuphumla ngokwenza umzekelo: ukuphefumla okunzulu, ukucamngca, iyoga, ingqondo, njl.
Ukuphila ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo
Ukongeza, kubalulekile ukuba kwikhalenda yakho yomsebenzi, ufumane ixesha lokukwazi ukuzinikela. Kufuneka uzinike ixesha lokuzilolonga, ukonwabela izihlobo zakho, usapho lwakho, izinto ozithandayo kunye nawe. Ukunyamekela impilo yakho yeemvakalelo yeyona nto ibalulekileyo ukuze ukwazi ukuphumelela iimviwo zokukhetha kananjalo, nayiphi na inkalo ebalulekileyo yobomi bakho.
Ngombutho olungileyo, ngonyamezelo, umdla kunye nenkuthazo, awuyi kuphumelela kuphela iimviwo zakho zokukhetha, kodwa uya kuba nakho ukufeza nayiphi na injongo ozibekele yona.