Kancinci kancinci, ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo bufumana amandla kwimfundo yabantwana, ekhaya nasezikolweni. Abantwana bafuna imfundo yeemvakalelo ubuncinci kube kanye ngeveki kubo bonke ubuntwana babo. Ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo buyimfuneko kulwalamano lomntu, kubomi bexesha elizayo kwaye ngokubanzi, kuyo yonke into.
Abantwana kufuneka bacinge ngeemvakalelo, kufuneka bachonge kwaye baveze oko bakucingayo kunye nezinto abazivayo nokuba kutheni besenza oko. Kodwa ukongeza, kufuneka baziqonde iingcinga kunye neemvakalelo zabanye. Iziphumo xa usebenza nabantwana kubukrelekrele boMvakalelo ngokungathandabuzekiyo ziyamangalisa.
Abantwana, xa usebenza nabo, iimvakalelo ziyakwazi ukuthi kunye nokuziva ngathi:
- 'Ndiziva ndingalunganga xa ndiseklasini'
- 'Ndinexhala lokungahambelani nabantu endifunda nabo'
- 'Ndiyacaphuka xa utata engachithi xesha kunye nam ekhaya'
- 'Andiyithandi xa abahlobo bam bengafuni ukudlala nam yiyo loo nto ndikhala, nangona kukubi kakhulu'
Ubuntwana kubalulekile ukuba basebenze kubukrelekrele bemvakalelo
Rhoqo, sihlala sicinga ukuba abantwana abanakho ukuqhubekeka okanye ukuqonda ubunzima beemvakalelo zehlabathi. Abantu abadala abaninzi baziva bekhuselekile ngokungafundisi abantwana izifundo ezingathandekiyo okanye ezintsonkothileyo. Kodwa inyani kukuba abantwana bayazifunxa zonke iimvakalelo ezibangqongileyo, nokuba zifihlakele kubo. Ukuba awuyazi indlela yokuyiqhuba, kulapho iingxaki zinokuvela.
Abantwana, ukusukela kwixesha abaqala ngalo ukuthetha, banokufunda ukuchonga nokuthetha ngeemvakalelo. Oku kuya kubanika ukuzithemba kwaye baya kuba nakho ukuveza iimvakalelo zabo ngokuthetha nangokuvulekileyo. Uninzi lwabantwana baya kuba nakho ukuthetha ngeemvakalelo zabo kwaye xa bekwenzile, baya kuba nakho ukuvelana nabanye. Uvelwano luyimfuneko kuluntu lwethu ukuqhubela phambili.
Ingqondo ikhula ngokukhawuleza
Iingqondo zabantwana zikhula ngesantya esikhawulezayo, abantwana bahlala bethe qwa kwinto eyenzeka macala onke kubo ukuze bafunde kwaye bathathe lonke ulwazi oluyimfuneko lokukhulisa. Kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bafunde ukuhlamba amazinyo abo njengoko kunjalo ukuqonda imfundo yemvakalelo, oku kuyakuphucula umgangatho wabo wobomi kakhulu.
Ngokufundisa abantwana ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo, indlela yokuqonda iimvakalelo zabo, ukuqonda apho bavela khona kunye nokufunda ukujongana nabo. Iimvakalelo zifundisa ezona zakhono zibaluleke kakhulu kwimpumelelo yazo ebomini. I-Intelligence Quotient (IQ) ayibalulekanga kwimpumelelo ebomini njenge-EI. U-LAbantu abanenqanaba eliphezulu le-EI banokwenza izigqibo ezisempilweni kwaye babenomgangatho wobomi obungcono kubo bonke imiba.
Ukubaluleka kokuqonda iimvakalelo
Abantwana kufuneka bafunde ukuqonda nokwazi iimvakalelo zabo. Xa umntwana eziqonda iimvakalelo zakhe nezabanye, baya kuba nemveliso ngakumbi, ukusebenza kakuhle kwizifundo, izakhono zobunkokeli ezingcono, baya kuba noxinzelelo oluncinci, bangabi namathuba okuwela kuxinzelelo kwaye ekugqibeleni, uya kuziva kamnandi ngendawo apho kubalwa khona.
Izinto ezi-5 eziyimfuneko kubukrelekrele boMvakalelo
- Ulwazi lomntu. Ukuze uzazi kwaye uqaphele iimvakalelo zakho, kubalulekile ukugcina engqondweni ezinye zeengongoma:
- Ukuzilawula. Ukukwazi ukulawula nokulawula indlela esisabela ngayo sijonga iimvakalelo zethu.
- Inkuthazo yangaphakathi. Yiba nembono ebalulekileyo ngobomi kunye nezinto esinokufikelela kuzo.
- Uvelwano Kufuneka uziqonde iimvakalelo zabanye.
- Izakhono zentlalo. Ukwazi ukwakha unxibelelwano lwasentlalweni.
Abantu abadala baya kuqala
Njengabazali, akunakubakho ndlela esempilweni okanye egqibeleleyo yokuphatha iimvakalelo okanye iziqu zethu, kwaye xa oku kusenzeka kunokubakho iingxaki ekufundiseni abantwana ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo. Kungenxa yako konke oku ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukubona utshintsho kubantwana, kufuneka uqale ngokwakho. Ihlabathi labantu abadala kufuneka lazise iimvakalelo zabo ukuze ngale ndlela, abantwana bakwazi ukulandela ngomzekelo.
Ngethamsanqa Izinto ezintlanu zobukrelekrele bemvakalelo zinokufundiswa kwaye zifundwe nangaliphi na ixesha. Zininzi izixhobo kunye neendlela ezinokusinceda thina kunye nabantwana bethu ukuba baqale ukubona nokuqonda iimvakalelo zabo nezabanye. Le nkqubo iqala ngokuqaphela, kuba kuphela xa siqonda ukuba siphi apho siya kuba nakho ukuzitshintsha kwaye siphucule impilo yethu yengqondo.