Ehlabathini, bambalwa abantu kunye nabantwana abanengxaki yokungeva ukusuka kumodareyitha ukuya kobunzima. Umntu osisithulu akazazi izandi azifumana ngaphandle. Ukuphulukana nokuva kunokuba buthathaka (ukuva kancinci kodwa ayithethi konke konke) ukumodareyitha (umzekelo xa umntu enengxaki yokuva) okanye kunzima (xa umntu enokuziva kuphela ukungcangcazela kodwa engeva nasiphi na isandi).
Xa usebenza nabantwana kunye nabantu abadala abanengxaki yokuva kubaluleke kakhulu ukufumanisa amandla kunye nobuthathaka babo, kuba kungale ndlela kuphela apho izimvo zinokufumaneka ukusebenza ngempumelelo nomntu ofuna ukhathalelo olukhethekileyo. Ngokwazi umntu odinga izixhobo, uya kuba nakho ukufumana ezona zibasebenza kakuhle.
Yintoni omele uyazi ngaphambi kokuba usebenze nomntu ongeva kakuhle
Xa unomntu ongevayo phambi kwakho kodwa ungazi ukuba ungaqhakamshelana njani ngoba awazi ukuthetha intetho yezandla okanye naluphi na uhlobo lwezixhobo ezisetyenziswa nguloo mntu, awunakukhathazeka, zikhona iindlela onokuthi Nxibelelana kwaye uqale ukusebenza:
- Sebenzisa ulwimi lomzimba olulungileyo njengophawu lokuvunywa.
- Thetha ngokuthe ngqo kumntu ongevayo, ugcine amehlo akho kubo kuyo yonke incoko. Ukuba awumjonganga ngqo, akazukuyiqonda yonke into oyithethayo kuye.
- Umntu ongevayo kufuneka abubone ubuso bakho. Oku kubalulekile, ke zama ukuqinisekisa ukuba igumbi olikuyo likhanyisiwe kwaye ungaze uvale umlomo wakho okanye ujike embindini wencoko, kufuneka ubone imilebe yakho ukuze uyifunde. Ukuba usebenza kwiqela kuya kufuneka ulungiselele abantu ukuze umntu ngamnye akubone ngaphandle kwengxaki.
- Thetha ngokucacileyo, kodwa sukubaxa okanye ungxole. Akuyomfuneko kwaye kukungahloniphi.
- Jonga inkangeleko yobuso neyomzimba womntu ongevayo ukukunceda ukuba unxibelelane kakuhle. Ukunqwala kwentloko akusoloko kuthetha ukuba bayakuqonda, kuya kufuneka uqiniseke ngolwimi lwabo lomzimba kunye nentetho yabo ukuba uyaqondakala kakuhle umyalezo ofuna ukuwudlulisa.
- Khumbula ukuba ukubonwa kuhlala kunceda. Umzekelo, ukuba ujonge ividiyo ye-YouTube, qiniseka ukuba inemibhalo engezantsi yokuphucula uxinzelelo.
Umntu ongevayo unendlela yokuthetha ekunokuba nzima ukuyiqonda ekuqaleni, kodwa ungaze uyithabathe lula into afuna ukuyidlulisa kuba kunzima ukuba uyiqonde, kuba usenokuziva ngathi umntu lowo akabalulekanga.
Ukuba usebenza nabantwana, ungalindeli ukuba angahlala ixesha elide. Basebenzisa ukubona, ukuchukumisa, kunye nevumba ukunxibelelana nabantu kunye nezinto ezibangqongileyo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukhumbule ukuba umntu Ukunxiba ii-headphone akuthethi ukuba uyakuqonda kakuhle, izixhobo zokuva zandisa isandi kodwa ungazicacisi.
Iindlela zonxibelelwano nabantu abazizithulu
Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyazi kukuba kufuneka ubenomonde, yamkele inyani yabo kwaye uqonde ukuba kunokuba nzima kuwe ukuba uyiqonde kwasekuqaleni, kwaye nabo bakwenzele. Zininzi iindlela kunye nezixhobo zonxibelelwano nomntu ongevayo.
Ukufundwa kwemilebe
Obu buchule bunzima kwaye ipesenti yabantu abazizithulu abanokutolika ngemilebe yabo incinci.
Ipensile nephepha
Yindlela elula yokunxibelelana kwaye iyasebenza.
IDactylology
Luhlobo lopelo lweminwe, uhlobo lonxibelelwano lwencwadi. Izandla neminwe zichaza oonobumba ukwenza amagama. Abantwana bayathanda ukufunda obu buchule kuba bulula.
iimpawu zolwimi
Olu lulwimi olusetyenziswa ngabantu abazizithulu ngezandla zabo. Akukho lula ukufunda kwaye akukho lwimi luthetha iphela, ulwimi ngalunye lunentetho yezandla eyahlukileyo. Ukudityaniswa kwezikhundla zezandla kusetyenziswa ukubonisa izimvo kunye namabinzana. Ukuba akukho phawu lwengcamango, iminwe isetyenziselwa ukupela oonobumba (ulwimi lwezandla).
Inkqubo yeBimodal
Dibanisa intetho yezandla nolwimi oluthethiweyo.
Kwakhona, ukuba nasiphi na isixhobo sisetyenzisiwe kubuchwephesha obutsha, kuya kufuneka dibanisa izixhobo ezibonakalayo ukuqonda kwakho (imibhalo engezantsi, imifanekiso, njl.
Ngaba uyazi naziphi na izixhobo zokusebenza ukuze usebenze nabantu abanengxaki yokungeva ofuna ukwabelana nathi? Singathanda ukuba wabelane ngolwazi lwakho nathi!