Xa sisenza a isishwankathelo, kuqhelekile ukususa (kwaye ke thintela ukubeka okubhaliweyo okungafunekiyo) ezo ndawo sicinga ukuba azizukunceda kuthi. Oku kubandakanya zonke iintlobo zeekhonsepthi. Siza kuba noxanduva lokuthatha isigqibo sokuba icandelo liyakuba luncedo kuthi okanye akunjalo. Nangona kunjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba into eza kuba ngumdla kuthi, ekuqaleni ayibonakali injalo.
Kuqala, ngaphambi kokuqala ukwenza isishwankathelo, kuyacetyiswa ukuba uthathele ingqalelo eyona nto iphambili oza kuwusebenzisa umxholo, oko kukuthi, umxholo apho siza kugxila khona. Ukwazi oko, ngoku sinokushwankathela. Kuya kufuneka sigcine yonke imixholo esiyifumana iluncedo kwaye, ewe, inento yokwenza nomxholo. Ukuba akunjalo, isishwankathelo singekho, kufuneka sifunde ngaphezulu kwemfuneko.
Kukho impazamo enokwenziwa ngabantu abaninzi. Sithetha xa sisusa isivakalisi ukuze sisenze sifutshane ngangokunokwenzeka, kwaye ngokwenyani umxholo uza kuba njalo iluncedo. Ingasibangela ukuba sifunde kancinci kwaye, ukuba awulibali, fumana amanqaku asezantsi kwiimviwo. Kuya kufuneka ulumke kakhulu ngale nto.
Kwimeko apho kwenzeka into echaseneyo, oko kukuthi, ukuba sibeka umxholo ongaphezulu kunokuba kufanelekile, konke ekufuneka sikwenzile kukuba funda ngakumbi. Ekuqaleni ayifanelanga ukuba yingxaki enkulu. Nangona kuyinyani ukuba kunokubangela ukungathandeki okuthile, kwimeko apho singathandi ukuyenza.
Konke okunye, yenza isishwankathelo ayinzimaNangona kuya kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo into ocinga ukuba iyimfuneko kwaye ayiyiyo. Ungalibali, kuba inqaku lakho lisemngciphekweni.