Iingxaki zemali zinokubenzakalisa ubomi bakho kwaye zinokubangela ukuba uyeke iiprojekthi zakho zemfundo okanye zobungcali. Xa oku kusenzeka kubonakala ngathi akukho kukhanya ekupheleni kwetonela kwaye yonke into imnyama kakhulu ukuba iqhubeke nokulwa. Amatyala, ukunqongophala kwemali ... konke oku kukwenza uzive ungalunganga kwaye nozinzo lwakho lweemvakalelo luyachaphazeleka.
Inyani yile yokuba ngekhe ubunqumame ubomi bakho kwaye ubuyele umva xa izinto bezikuhambela kakuhle ngokwezezimali. Ubomi abusebenzi kanjalo. Kuya kufuneka uphinde uvuke kule ndawo ukuyo ngoku unganyanzeli imeko, yenza nje eyakho indima ukuze le ngxaki yezemali ingakwenzakalisi kakhulu kwaye ungasokoli kwixesha elifutshane okanye elide. Ingxaki yezemali akufuneki ikwenze uyeke amaphupha akho, lixesha lokuba uqale phantsi wenze izinto ngokufanelekileyo.
Sukuvumela uloyiko lukuthathe
Uqinisekile ukuba uyoyika, kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Kufuneka utshintshe izinto ebomini bakho ukuze ukwazi ukuya phambili. Mhlawumbi ukuze ugcine ishishini lakho kwaye uqhubeke uhlala kulo okanye uqhubeke nokufunda kufuneka utshintshe ikhaya lakho libe lelincinci elixabisa imali encinci kuwe, okanye uthengise imoto okanye mhlawumbi… sebenza ngaphezulu. Kodwa okubalulekileyo kukuba ungalahli ithemba, kodwa uhlale phantsi ufumane izisombululo.
Kuya kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba iziphumo ezenzekayo kuwe kufuneka zibe zizizathu zokuba uphendule. Jonga izinto ezenzeka kuwe ngokungathathi hlangothi. Fumana intsingiselo kwisakhono sokuzihlaziya ngokwakho kunye nemeko yakho. Ukusuka apho, ekuphela kwendlela yokuqhubeka kukunyuka.
Cinga ngezinto onokuzisombulula
Kuxhomekeka kwinqanaba lobukrakra beemeko ojamelana nazo, unokukhetha iindlela ezininzi onokuzisebenzisa. Kuqala, jonga nosapho lwakho okanye iqabane lakho ukufumana ukuba zeziphi ezona zisombululo zibalaseleyo onazo etafileni. Kuya kufuneka ukhangele iindlela zokuhlawula amatyala akho ngaphandle kokuwela kumatyala. Cinga ngeekati ekufuneka uziphelisile, ungathathi mboleko ukuhlawula kuba uya kuphelela ematyaleni nangakumbi ... Yenza izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ebomini bakho nakwezinye izinto, zibeke ecaleni, nokuba okwethutyana.
Yenza isicwangciso sokuphucula
Kubalulekile ukuba uhlale etafileni ngepensile kunye nephepha kwaye uqale ukwenza isicwangciso sokuphucula. Ukuba izinto azinakuba mbi ngakumbi (okanye ukuba), ngoku kuya kufuneka ucinge ngendlela onokuthi uzenze zibe ngcono, nokuba ziyacotha. Cwangcisa iimfuno zakho zobuqu, zemfundo okanye zobungcali. Nangona kubonakala ngathi ubomi bakho abulawuleki, inyani kukuba ungabulawula ngaphezu kokuba ucinga ngokwenza izigqibo malunga neemfuno zakho.
Kufuneka ufunde ukuhlala ngokuzinzileyo. Qala ukutya ekhaya, ukuthatha izithuthi zikawonke-wonke ukuya kwiindawo, ukunciphisa iindleko kwifowuni yakho, thengisa izinto ongazifuniyo ekhaya ... Yenza konke okusemandleni ukunciphisa iindleko kwaye kwangaxeshanye unokuyonyusa ingeniso yakho.
Beka i-ego yakho ecaleni
Usenokucinga ukuba awusoze ube neengxaki zemali, kodwa isidima sibaluleke ngaphezu kwayo yonke loo nto. Shiya i-ego yakho ecaleni kwakho kwaye wonwabe amatikiti esaphulelo kwivenkile. Ukuba ungathenga ngentengiso kwaye ugcine imali, konke kungcono. Ukuba kufuneka uthengise imoto yakho kwaye uqale ukusebenzisa izithuthi zikawonkewonke, cinga ukuba inokuba yeyethutyana. Cinga ukuba ayinguwe wedwa emhlabeni ekufuneka elwe neengxaki zemali, kodwa okona kubalulekileyo kukufunda nokuphuma kuzo.
Oko kukwathetha ukuba kuyakufuneka ujonge amathuba emisebenzi ongakhange ucinge ukuba ungawasebenzisa. Mhlawumbi ukubangumphathi wevenkile kwivenkile enkulu kunokuba yindlela yokuphuma enkathazweni. Kukwakho nemisebenzi ekhethekileyo ebhetyebhetye efana nokugcina umntwana, ukuhamba ngenja ... Imisebenzi enye enokukunceda ukuba ube nokongezwa ekupheleni kwenyanga kwaye ngenxa yoko kungafuneki uyenze ngaphandle kwamathuba akho emfundo okanye amaphupha akho omsebenzi. Ubomi bunokuba lula kakhulu kunokuba buvakala, nokuba kukho amaqhuma ngamanye amaxesha. Into ebalulekileyo kukuthatha uxanduva.