Enye yezinto abasoloko besixelela yona kukuba, kwimeko apho abantwana bethu bebe neziphumo ezihle, siyabaqonda kwaye sibanike umvuzo. Into ebenza baqonde ukuba kulungile, kwaye kufuneka baqhubeke ngomendo. Nangona kunjalo, kubonakala ngathi ezi ntlobo zezenzo aziphumeleli ngokupheleleyo, kodwa kufuneka zenziwe ngomda omncinci.
Kuyacaca ukuba, xa kufunyenwe amabakala amahle, bonisa okuthile ukuqonda isoloko ilungile. Kodwa ke, akufuneki ukuba sidlule ngaphezulu. Kufuneka sikwenze ukuba kubonakale, kodwa kusikelwe umda okuncinci. Inyaniso yokuba iziphumo ezilungileyo zifezekisiwe ayithethi ukuba ukuphela kwendlela kufikelelwe ngempumelelo. Ngokuchasene noko. Kufuneka uqhubeke usebenza ukuze izinto ziqhubeke zihamba kakuhle.
Ingcebiso yethu ilula, kodwa icacile: ngalo lonke ixesha abantwana befumana amabakala amahle (nokuba kukwincwadana yeendaba okanye kwiimviwo) yenza ngokufanelekileyo. Baqonde ukufaneleka kwabo kwaye babanike ibhaso elibamema ukuba baqhubeke nokusebenza ukugcina iziphumo. Kodwa, ewe, musa ukuya ngaphaya kwayo. Yinto enye ukubanika ibhaso, kunye nokunye ukubanika yonke into abayifunayo. Banokuphinda bawele ezandleni ezingalunganga.
Kukwenzeka okufanayo nakwezinye izifundo kunye nomsebenzi. Xa sisenza into kakuhle, ukwamkelwa kancinci kuhlala nceda ukuya phambili ngamandla angaphezulu. Ekugqibeleni, oko kubonisa okuninzi, ngakumbi kuba siyakuhlala sijonge phambili kwezi ziphumo zihle. Ukuba senza umsebenzi olungileyo kutheni ungafumani umvuzo omncinci?