Masizibeke kwimeko ethi, ngelishwa, iphindaphindwe rhoqo. Imalunga nala maxesha xa sizifumana sinjalo ndidiniwe ukuba asinamandla okuqhubeka nokufunda. Kufuneka siyiqonde into yokuba yenzekile kuthi sonke. Nokuba kungenxa yokugula, kuba silele kancinci, okanye ngenxa yokucaphuka okuncinci okanye ukuphazamiseka, inyani kukuba ukudinwa kunokusihla ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo.
Yintoni esinokuyenza ukuqhubela phambili? Kufuneka sitsho ukuba ukudinwa kunokufunyanwa ngeendlela ezininzi. Ngamanye amaxesha ungayithengisa kodwa, ngamanye amaxesha, kuya kufuneka sibeke ezinye isisombululo phambi kokuba uqhubeke usebenza okanye ufunde. Into yesibini enokwenzeka yeyona inqabileyo, nangona isenokuba yeyona inengqiqo.
Kwimeko apho uye walala kancinci kwaye udiniwe, thatha ulele okanye uyalala iiyure ezininzi kunokuba ngumbono ogqwesileyo wokufumana amandla kwakhona. Ngaphandle kokuqhubeka, siqinisekile ukuba uya kuvuka kwimeko engcono, uzimisele nokufunda ngakumbi kunokuba ubucebisile ekuqaleni.
Kwelinye icala, kuyinyani ukuba kuyakubakho amaxesha apho, nangona sidiniwe, kuyakunyanzeleka ukuba siqhubele phambili ngenxa yeemeko ezahlukeneyo. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka kuwe, ungakhathazeki kakhulu. Zama ukwenza imisebenzi yakho ngeyona ndlela ibhetele. Siqinisekile ukuba kancinci umzamo ukongeza uya kuzuza iziphumo ezintle.
Ukudinwa kuyinto eqhelekileyo ebomini bethu. Kodwa kufuneka wazi yomele kwaye ujongane nayo. Ke ngoko, nokuba udiniwe, siyakukhuthaza ukuba uqhubeke nokuzabalazela ukufumana le nto uyifunayo.