Kukho ingcebiso engeyonyani ngokupheleleyo enikwa uninzi lwabantwana. Kwaye, xa abantwana bethu befumana amanqaku aphezulu, into esiyenzayo Banike izinto. Nantoni na abayifunayo. Into engabenzakalisiyo kuphela, kodwa etshintsha nesimo sabo sengqondo kwizifundo. Abantwana kufuneka bakhuthazwe. Ayisiyondlela ilungileyo leyo.
Xa umntwana efumana amanqaku aphezulu okanye ephumelela uviwo, eyona nto intle ayikokumnika izinto. Ngokuchasene noko. Kuya kufuneka sibenze baqonde ukuba iimviwo zolawulo oluncinci lokuqinisekisa ukuba banazo ulwazi ukuba ufuna ukubafundisa. Akufanele bafundele ukufumana izipho, kodwa bafunde kwaye baqeqeshele ikamva. Ewe kubonakala ngathi yonke le minyaka besiyenza gwenxa.
Injongo ekufuneka siyilandele nabantwana bethu, ekuqaleni, ilula: ukubenza bayiqonde loo nto uxanduva lwakho kukufunda, ukuqeqesha kamva kunye nokufumana umsebenzi abawuthandayo. Ngale ndlela, baya kuba nakho ukuveza ikamva kunye nokufezekisa iinjongo ezicetywayo. Kwaye ukuba bafundela ukufumana izinto, kuyacaca ukuba abayi kuqhubeka besenza xa bengazifumani.
Ngamafutshane, ukuba ufuna ngenene ukukhuthaza abantwana ukuba bafunde, ungabathembisi izipho okanye izinto ezintsha, kodwa kuya kufuneka ukuba ubenze baqonde ukuba, xa befumene amabanga amahle, baya kuba nethuba lokufikelela imisebenzi ukuba bayathanda ngokwenene, ukongeza kwimvakalelo yokufezekiswa kubo. Into abaya kuyithanda kakhulu. Ubuncinane kwixesha elizayo.