Xa uthetha nomhlobo, sihlala sihambisa iingalo zethu, okanye sijike, okanye senze ubuso obubonisa iimvakalelo esinazo malunga noko sikuthethayo. Nangona kunjalo, xa sizivavanya ngomlomo olo lwimi alufanelanga kuba lunokubonisa ukungazithembi esinako kwaye kufuneka luthintelwe kuzo zonke iindleko.
Izenzo ze-Reflex ezinje ngokuhamba ngokubeka ubunzima phakathi kolunyawo nolunye, okanye ukuchukumisa iinwele, zibonisa ukungazithembi kwinto ethethwayo, ukongeza ekubonakaliseni ukuba umntu uyaxoka, okanye asonelisekanga koko sikuthethayo (esikuthethayo kuba kuko okubhaliweyo kodwa asivumelani).
Ukujonga ngasekhohlo kubonisa ubuxoki, ngelixa ekunene kuya kuthetha ukuthetha inyani okanye ukuvumelana noko sikuthethayo.
Ulwimi lomzimba, nangona lubonakala ngathi lubudenge kuthi, yinto ekufuneka siyithathele ingqalelo kuba inokuthetha inyathelo phakathi kokupasa (kuba bacinga ukuba uwuphakamisile umxholo ukuba ubhencwe kakuhle kwaye uthethe kakuhle ngezenzo zakho (ulwimi lomzimba ) okanye ukunqunyanyiswa (ngenxa yezimbo zomzimba ezingazibandakanyiyo kodwa ezisinikelayo).