Asinguye wonke umntu okwazi ukufumana okanye ukufumana umnxeba wobuchule. Xa kufikwa ekukhetheni into enokuba ngumsebenzi wobomi bonke, kukho amathandabuzo amaninzi ahlala evela. Ukufumana ubizo lobungcali kubalulekile xa kuziwa ekunandiseni umsebenzi othile kunye nokwenza izakhono ezahlukeneyo kunye nobuchule bawo.
Nangona kunjalo kwaye ngelishwa, baninzi abantu abathi nangona benobizo lomsebenzi othile, Benza enye into eyahluke ngokupheleleyo kwiminqweno yabo yokwenyani. Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kuthetha ngento enokuqondwa ngumsebenzi wobungcali kwaye kubaluleke kangakanani ukuzivumela ukuba uqhathwe ngawo.
Yintoni ubizo lobungcali?
Baninzi abantwana abathi, xa begqibezela izifundo zabo zamabanga aphakamileyo, bazibuze ukuba loluphi olona khondo lubalaseleyo lokukhetha kunye Ngale ndlela, banokubeka ubizo lwabo lokwenyani. Ngaphandle koku, kwiimeko ezininzi kwenzeka okwahlukileyo kwaye lo mfana kuthethwa ngaye ugqibela ngokukhetha ikhondo elingamzalisekisi ngokupheleleyo. Ubizo lobungcali lubhekisa kwinto oyifundayo kuba uyifuna ngokwenene kwaye iyanelisa njengomntu.
Lunjani ubizo lobungcali?
Lihlazo lokwenyani ukubona indlela abantu abancinci abafunda ngayo inqanaba elithile kwaye bagqibela ngokusebenza kwinto engabafezekisi kwaphela. Kwiimeko zokuthandabuza, Kungabaluleka ukufumana uncedo lomcebisi okanye ingcali eyaziyo ukwenza umntu oselula ukuba abone ukuba loluphi olona bizo lwabo. Kwimeko yokungaqiniseki kwaye unamathandabuzo amaninzi, iya kuba kukunikela ingqalelo kwezi ngcebiso zilandelayo kwaye uzisebenzise:
- Into yokuqala ekufuneka ayenzile umntu kukwazi ukubona zonke iziphiwo abanazo ukuze bazi eyona nto bagqwesa kuyo. Kubalulekile ukucinga malunga nokuba loluphi uhlobo lwemisebenzi onelona xesha lilungileyo kwaye uyonwabele. Ngale ndlela, ukuba uthanda ukufunda okanye ukubhala kwaye ulungile kuLwimi okanye kuNcwadi, into eqhelekileyo kukukhetha isebe leeleta.
- Ingcebiso yesibini kukujonga ixesha elide kunye nomsebenzi onomdla kuwo. Ukuba emva kokubona okunje uziva ulungile kwaye wanelisekile, kunokwenzeka ukuba ulufumene ubizo lwakho lobuchwephesha. Kananjalo kunokwenzeka ukuba xa ubona umsebenzi othile ocinga ukuba uyawuthanda, awupheli ukugcwalisa ngokupheleleyo.
- Kwiimeko ezininzi umntu uyathandabuza ukutshintsha imikhwa kunye nendlela abaphila ngayo nangona umsebenzi wabo wobugcisa ufuna oko. Ukuba ufumene into oyithandayo, kubalulekile ukuba uhlengahlengise ubomi bakho ukuze ugqibe isidanga sakho. Kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukubeka izivamvo ezintlanu kwikhondo lomsebenzi olikhethileyo.
- Elinye icebo elilungileyo kukuqokelela ulwazi oluninzi kangangoko malunga nento oza kuyifunda kwaye uza kuyenza phi. Kulungile ukwaziswa kakuhle, ngaphambi kokuthatha inyathelo elibalulekileyo lokufunda ikhondo elithile elinokuchaphazela ikamva lakho.
- Ubizo kukukhetha ezo zifundo zikugcwalisayo kwaye zikonwabise. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba ufumanise malunga namathuba emisebenzi anokubakho kunye nokuba ungasiphi isikhundla ukuze usebenze. Kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukuqikelela ikamva ukuqinisekisa ukuba isigqibo sesona silungileyo.
- Ingcebiso yokugqibela iya kubandakanya ukudibana nabantu abawaziyo lo mbandela kwaye bayayazi indlela yokukucebisa kwaye bacacise onke amathandabuzo onawo. Lonke uncedo aluncinci xa kufikwa ekuziphoseni ngokupheleleyo kulo msebenzi ucinga ubizo lwakho lokwenyani.
Ekugqibeleni, uninzi lwabantu lunobizo ngaphakathi kwabo. Kuyimfuneko kuphela ukuba uthathe ingqalelo xa ukhetha indlela ethile okanye enye. Ngelishwa baninzi abantu abanobizo lobuchwephesha abangaphumeleliyo ukulusebenzisa kwaye bakhethe ukufunda into engabagcwalisiyo okanye engabonwabisiyo. Oku kunokuba kukutsala ubomi bakho bonke kwaye kumenze umntu onjalo angonwabi ngandlela zonke. Wonke umntu kufuneka azi ubizo lwabo lokwenyani ukusukela apho, ukukwazi ukuziva uzalisekile ngokufunda kunye nokusebenza kwinto ekuonwabisa yonke imihla.