Akukuhle ukuzithanda ngokweqile imigomo yomuntu siqu, kodwa futhi akulungile ukunganikezi noma yiliphi inani kulesi sici. Imigomo ibeka inkomba kanye nendlela okufanele uyilandele. Ngakho-ke, lapho uzwa ukukhungatheka kokuthi uzame iphrojekthi engazange ifezeke, kufanele ucabange, ikakhulukazi uma lesi simo siphindaphindwa njalo. Yimaphi amaphutha akuvimbela ukuthi ufinyelele imigomo yakho? Ku Formación y Estudios sizokutshela.
1. Shiya amaphrojekthi maphakathi
Abanye abantu bajabule kakhulu ngokuqala umsebenzi omusha. Kodwa kuyinkohliso edlula ngokushesha. Lokhu kuholela esimweni sokumisa eminingi yale misebenzi. Kungokwemvelo ukuzizwa ujabule ekuqaleni kwenhloso entsha, futhi kungokwemvelo ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi izinga lentshiseko lehla. Kodwa-ke, unephutha uma unikeza inani elidlulele kulesi sithako lapho empeleni i ukubekezelela Kuyisihluthulelo sokubekezela. Ngakho-ke, ukuntuleka kokuzibophezela kuholela ekwehlulekeni.
2. Ukungakulungeli okulindelwe
Kungenzeka ukuthi ucabange imigomo eminingi ehlukene, noma kunjalo, ukucabanga kanye neqiniso yizindiza ezimbili ezihlukene. Kumele beka phambili okulindelwe. Kufanele ufeze lezi zinhloso empeleni. Isikhathi asikhawulelwe, ngakho-ke, chaza ukuthi yini i-oda lakho lokuthandayo.
3. Izinjongo ezingenakufinyeleleka
Ngale kwesiqubulo esivame ukuphindwa esithi "ukufuna kungamandla”, Ushaya udonga njalo lapho uzibekela imigomo endaweni engenangqondo ngokuphelele. Kuyakhuthaza ukuzibekela izinselelo zokuvelela, kepha njalo, kusuka kokungokoqobo.
4. Ukuncika ekugqugquzelweni kwangaphandle
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi unikeze ugqozi olukhulu ekukhuthazeni kwakho kwangaphakathi ngoba ukondla lokhu kuzikhuthaza kuncike kuwe. Ngokuphambene nalokho, ukulinda njalo ifayili le- isisusa sangaphandle kungakwenza uhlupheke kakhulu. Ngoba ukuzibeka kule ndiza eyiqiniso kufana nokufuna ukulawula into engancikile kuwe.
5. Izaba ezinobuthi
"Anginaso isikhathi", "lokhu kunzima kakhulu", "anginathuba lokukufeza", "ngizokwenza ngesinye isikhathi" ... Njengomsebenzi wokuqeqesha, cabanga ngalezo zizathu ohlale uzenza zenzele. Lezi zizathu zikuholela ekubeni uphile unamathiselwe endizeni ye uvalo. Ukwesaba ukuthi esikhundleni sokukusiza ukuba uhlakaniphe kukukhubaze. Akukona okokungena esikhaleni kepha ngokuzilungiselela ngezindlela ezidingekayo zokusondela kulowo mgomo. Uma uhlala eduze nendawo yakho yokunethezeka, awufundi lutho olusha.
6. Shesha nokucindezeleka
Sekuyisikhathi esingakanani ucabanga ngalokho okubaluleke ngempela kuwe? Musa ukuthathwa nguye umbhalo wempilo. Lokho wukuthi, ungazivumeli ubekwe isimo ngokwenziwa yiningi noma ngokulindelwe abanye abantu abakubeke kuwe. Ukujaha njalo kwempilo yesimanje kukhombisa ukuthambekela kokuhlala njalo njengendlela yokuphila. Kodwa-ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uthole isikhathi sokuthola okubaluleke kakhulu empilweni yakho. Njengoba kusuka kuleli zinga lokuzazi kuphela, kungenzeka ukuthi uzibekele imigomo emisha. Izinjongo ezibalulekile kuwe manje, kusukela esigabeni esikhona okuso.