Besihlale sifundisiwe ukuthi inyuvesi iyona ndlela ehamba phambili yokuya noma yikuphi, kepha iqiniso ukuthi okuhle kwabanye akudingeki ukuthi kuphelele kwabanye. Ukuthola iziqu zasekolishi akuyona into efanele ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi kungenzeka wake wazizwa ukuthi ikolishi akuyona inketho enhle kuwe. Kepha uma lokhu kwenzeka, yini okufanele uyenze? Yiziphi izinketho onazo?
Lapho ubona ukuthi ukuya ekolishi akuyona into ekufanele, ungazizwa uyisilo esincane ngaphakathi kuwe uzama ukukwenza uhambe "ngendlela efanele." Ungamlaleli. Kufanele ucabange ngalokho okufanele ukwenze, kulokho ozizwa kukufanele kakhulu kuwe, futhi lokho akukubi, noma ngabe kusho ukuphikisana nokusanhlamvu. Impela ungakwazi ezinye izinketho ezikulungele kangcono wena.
Izikole zokuhweba
Ukungena emhlabeni wezohwebo kungumqondo ohlakaniphe kakhulu ngoba uzokwazi ukwenza uhlelo olukhethekile kakhulu ukuziqeqesha emsebenzini othile (njengomgcini wezinwele, isitayela sezinwele, i-beautician, umbazi, ugesi, umpheki, njll.). Lezi zinhlelo zivame ukusebenza kakhulu futhi uqeda ukuqeqeshwa eminyakeni emibili noma ngaphansi, futhi into enhle kakhulu ukuthi azibizi njengokukhokhela ikolishi. Uma ungumuntu okholelwa ukuthi unothando lwento ethile, maningi amathuba okuthi ungathola isikole sokuhweba / sokuhweba ngomsebenzi ophumelelayo ngaphandle kokuya ekolishi.
Qala ukusebenza
Abantu abaningi banquma ukuqala umsebenzi esikhundleni sokuya ekolishiKungaba yibhizinisi lomndeni, umsebenzi owaziyo phambilini noma ohambela ukusebenza emhlabeni wonke. Kunabantu abaningi abathatha isinqumo sokuqala ukusebenza esikhundleni sokuqhubeka nokufunda futhi lokhu kungabenza basebenze ngendlela yobungcweti enkampanini ethile, bathole ulwazi futhi bahole kahle.
Esikhundleni sokuthi ukhokhe ukuze uye ekolishi, uzobe wenza lokho okuthandayo futhi bazokukhokhela ngakho. Kepha-ke, ukuze le ndlela yokuphila ikulungele, kufanele uthole iphrofayili yomsebenzi evumelana nezintshisakalo zakho, kulapho-ke lapho ungavuka njalo ekuseni ujabule uyosebenza. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uzokwazi ukufunda ulwazi oluningi ukuze ukwazi ukuzakhela ikusasa elingcono lapho mhlawumbe, ungaba nenkampani yakho esikhundleni sokusebenzela abanye.
Cabanga ngamathuba akho
Mhlawumbe njengamanje ucabanga ukuthi inyuvesi akuyona indlela enhle ongayikhetha, kepha ngenhlanhla siyizidalwa eziqhubekela phambili nokuthi sithanda ukuguquka empilweni ukuze sikwazi ukufeza izinhloso zethu. Mhlawumbe ikolishi alikho kuwe ngalo mzuzu oqondile, kepha lokho akusho ukuthi akusoze kwalungela ukuthi uthathe njengenketho. Into enhle ukuthi kungenzeka ukwazi ukuya eyunivesithi uzohlala unayo (inqobo nje uma uhlangabezana nezidingo zokufinyelela), futhi ungaguquguquka ngokuya ngempilo yakho. Isibonelo, namuhla kunabantu abaningi okuthi, ngenxa yomsebenzi noma impilo yomndeni, kufanele bafunde kusuka ekhaya ngenxa yobuchwepheshe obusha. Khumbula ukuthi ngenxa yokuthi manje ucabanga ukuthi ikolishi alikulungele njengamanje, akusho ukuthi awukwazi ukushintsha umqondo wakho ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Kuthiwani uma usuvele usekolishi kodwa uzizwa ungekho endaweni?
Abantu abaningi abaqala izifundo zabo zaseyunivesithi, bavele babone ukuthi akuyona into ebebefuna ukuyifunda nokuthi bachitha isikhathi sabo, imali yabo nokuthi inkuthazo iyabonakala ngokungabikho kwayo. Kulokhu, kufanele ube nesikhathi sakho futhi uxazulule lokho kungabaza onakho ngaphakathi. Mhlawumbe lelo banga akusilo lelo olithandayo ngempela futhi ungene kulo ucabanga ukuthi kungumbono omuhle ngekusasa ngoba maningi amathuba okuthi kube nomsebenzi noma mhlawumbe uzizwe unengcindezi yokuwenza.
Kulawa macala womabili ashiwo, kufanele wazi ukuthi uma uqala ukwenza umsebenzi ongawuthandi, noma ungawuqeda, kunzima kuwe ukuthi kamuva ukuzivivinye ngenjabulo lokho okufundile, ngoba uzobe ungakuthandi it. Musa ukuchitha isikhathi sakho noma imali yakho, futhi lwela ukuthola ukuthi yini oyithandayo futhi yini ekujabulisa.