Kunezikhathi ezibucayi kakhulu ku- isivivinyo, kodwa ngasikhathi sinye, zivamile. Wake wanamathela ku- ukuhlolwa? Ezikhathini eziningi, lo muzwa awuhlangene nokuntuleka kokuzilungiselela kepha unengcindezi eyeqile, izinzwa, ukungazethembi nokwesaba ukwehluleka. Ungazenza kanjani kulezi zinhlobo zezimo? Esikhundleni sokuxakaniseka embuzweni othile, kuhle ukuthi udlulele kwenye ingxenye yesivivinyo, impendulo oyazi kangcono, bese uqala ukuyibhala. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukuthi ugweme ukubanjwa kumjikelezo omubi wokungabaza.
Lokho wukuthi, ngenkathi sifunda i- isihloko Okwesivivinyo noma senza umsebenzi wesikole wasekhaya, kufanele siqale ngokwenza leyo misebenzi enzima kakhulu kithi ukugwema umkhuba wokuhlehlisa izinto, kunalokho, ngesikhathi sokuhlolwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqala isivivinyo ngokuphendula lezo zigaba izimpendulo zazo uyazi. Ngale ndlela, usisebenzisa kahle isikhathi.
Lapho usuyiphendulile leyo mibuzo oyaziyo, phinda ufunde i- isitatimende yesigaba osishiye singenalutho bese uzama ukubeka lokho okwaziyo ngakho. Uma ungazizwa uvikelekile ngempendulo, futhi ubheka ukuthi ongakusho akunikeli ngalutho oluhlobene ngqo nombuzo, bese ushiya impendulo ingenalutho.
Lapho ubambeka esivivinyweni, thatha umoya ojulile. Uma udinga iphepha elingcolile ukuze ukwazi ukwenza uhlobo oluthile lwesichasiselo noma uhlaka lokuqala, buza uthisha.