Kunabantu abaziyo noma abazizwa ukuthi akuyona yonke into empilweni umsebenzi nokuqeqeshwa kwezemfundo ... kunezindlela eziningi ongakhetha kuzo impilo yonke. Uma unezinketho ngekusasa eliphambi kwakho, ngokungangabazeki izindaba ezinhle. Kepha kwesinye isikhathi, Awazi njalo ukuthi iyiphi indlela ofuna ukuyikhetha empilweni noma ukuthi iyiphi okungaba ngcono kakhulu ngenxa yezimo zakho.
Abantu abaningi bayazi ukuthi isinyathelo sabo esilandelayo sizoba yini ekuqeqesheni nasempilweni yabo yomsebenzi. Uyazi vele ukuthi kuzokwenzekani ngokulandelayo ezimpilweni zabo. Kepha kunabantu abaningi abangasazi, abangakwazi ukwenza leso sinqumo esibenza bazizwe kahle nokuthi ngaphakathi, bayazi ukuthi yisona esifanele. Kukulezi zimo, lapho abantu bethatha isinqumo sokuthatha isabatha, ukuze bazane kangcono futhi bazi kahle ukuthi iyiphi indlela yabo.
Namuhla ngifuna ukukhuluma nawe ngezindlela ezithile ukuze uthathe unyaka wesabatha nokuthi ngale ndlela, unembobo empilweni yakho nokuthi ngaphezu kokukusiza ucabange futhi uthathe isinqumo, ungajabulela izinzuzo kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho ukwazi ukujabulela isabatha.
Ukuze usebenze
Noma ufuna ukuba nesikhathi sakho, impilo iyabiza. Akunandaba ukuthi ufuna ukwenzani esikhathini esizayo, uzohlala udinga imali yokukufeza. Ukwenza lokhu, ungachitha unyaka wempilo yakho ukusebenzela kamuva, ukwazi ukukhokha iphupho lempilo yakho. Ungonga izindleko zakho zasekolishi noma mhlawumbe ukuqala ibhizinisi lakho, noma mhlawumbe ukusinda usuku nosuku. Ungatshala imali noma uthole imali yokwakha izinhloso zakho, unquma. Kepha uzodinga ukusebenza. Umsebenzi uzokusiza wakhe okuhlangenwe nakho okusha, ungakwazi ukuzimela ngokwengeziwe futhi uzimele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungakha amanethiwekhi wakho wokuthuthukisa ikusasa lakho.
Khonza ngokuzithandela
Ukuzinikela endaweni ekuthandayo kungakusiza ukuthi uthole ulwazi emkhakheni wekusasa lakho. Amakholeji amaningi, amanyuvesi kanye nama-NGO adinga inani elithile lamahora wokuzithandela. Kwesinye isikhathi ukuba yivolontiya kungakusiza uvule iminyango yesikhathi esizayo emsebenzini. Noma usebenza, ukuvolontiya kuyindlela enhle yokwazi lapho ufuna ukuqondisa khona impilo yakho. Okuhlangenwe nakho okuningi kokuphila kungakhiwa ngenxa yokuzithandela. Ngaphezu kokwenza umhlaba ongcono, ungakhuphula futhi ulwazi lwakho futhi wandise ulwazi lwakho.
Ukuhamba
Abantu abaningi bayathanda ukuhamba futhi uma benemali eyanele yokukwenza noma isibindi sokuhamba nobhakha emhlane, bangaba nesabatha lokuhamba emhlabeni. Isikhathi esihle sokuhamba sizohlala njalo ngaphambi kokuba uzibophezele ukuqeqeshwa noma umsebenzi. Izinzuzo zokuhamba zibanzi, ngoba kuzokusiza ukuthi wandise imibono yakho futhi ubone umhlaba ngokuhlukile. Ukuhamba kuzokusiza ukuthi ukwazise onakho futhi uqonde amanye amasiko, kuzokusiza nokuthi uqonde kangcono isiko lakho.
Uthisha ongcono kunoma ngubani unesipiliyoni, futhi ukuhamba kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuthola lolu lwazi. Ungakha ingqondo yakho ngokuqonda ukuhamba kwakho, kungaba sekhaya noma phesheya. Kunezinkulungwane zezinketho zokuhamba zabahambi bayo yonke iminyaka, kepha khumbula ukuthi uma inhloso yakho ukuba nonyaka wegebe ohambahamba emhlabeni wonke, kufanele ubheke zonke izeluleko zezempilo nezokuphepha.
Kuyadingeka ukuthi ungalokothi uhambe wedwa nokuthi uhlale wenza uphenyo ngezwe noma idolobha ngaphambi kokulivakashela, ikakhulukazi uma kungaziwa. Lapho ufunda okwengeziwe ngendawo oya kuyo, kulapho uzoba nokuvikeleka okukhulu lapho uyivakashela. Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi ubhukhe indawo yokuhlala ngemithombo ethembekile nokuthi uhlale unemali yakho nakho konke ukuzazisa kwakho ngaso sonke isikhathi. UNGAZE ushiye noma ngubani, ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo.
Lezi ngezinye zezindlela ongazicabangela ukuqala ngonyaka wakho wegebe, kepha okubalulekile - ngaphezu kokuba nokonga okuthile - ukuthi unyaka wakho wegebe unomgomo nokuthi kukusiza ukuba ubone kangcono indlela yakho yesikhathi esizayo. Kwesinye isikhathi kuyadingeka ukuthi uzithole ukuze uqhubeke nokuhamba.