Izinkulumo ozisho wena ngokwengqondo zinomthelela omkhulu emizweni yakho nasempilweni yakho. Imizwa yakho yakhiwe yimicabango yakho futhi imicabango yakho yimishwana yengqondo oyisho kuwe nsuku zonke, yize kwesinye isikhathi ungazi. Mhlawumbe wake waqaphela abaphathi bakho noma abaholi bekilasi futhi waqaphela ukuthi bazwakala beqinile futhi bezethemba kukho konke abakushoyo, imishwana yabo yengqondo ibasiza ukuba bazizwe ngaleyo ndlela. Kungakho kufanele wazi imishwana ethile ethikameza imigomo yakho yokufunda noma yobungcweti.
Uma unomona ngalabo bantu abazwakala bezethemba futhi bafuna ukufunda ukufana, kufanele uqale ukuguqulela imicabango yakho kuwe ukuqala ukuzwakala njengomholi. Kuyindlela yokuthi abanye bahloniphe imibono yakho nomsebenzi wakho, kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukuze nawe uzenzele.
Amagama owasebenzisa engqondweni yakho namagama owasho ngomlomo wakho ayizikhiye zokuzwakala uqinile, uzethembe futhi uzethembe. Uma ufuna ukufeza izinhloso zakho zemfundo kuzofanela ushiye eminye imishwana ngaphandle kwengqondo yakho futhi ungalokothi uwasho ekhanda lakho noma ngokuzwakalayo. Shintsha leyo micabango nemishwana ngezinhle kakhulu ezikusiza uzikhuthaze futhi ufeze izinhloso zakho.
1. Ngizozama kodwa angazi noma ngingakwazi
Lapho othile ethi 'ngizozama' noma 'ngizozama', yisisho esikwenza uzizwe ungavikelekile. Uma uthisha noma umphathi wakho ekucela ukuthi wenze iphrojekthi bese uthi uzozama, kuzokwenza abanye bacabange ukuthi ngeke uyenze futhi ngeke bakwazi ukuthemba wena. Yini enyeNgeke uzinikele ezintweni futhi uma uthi uyazama.
Uma uthi uzozama, akusho lutho kunoma ngubani futhi kumane kukwenze ungazethembi. Kwandisa ithemba kepha futhi nethuba lokwehluleka. Akekho umuntu ozokuthemba uma uthi uzozama, ngisho nawe uqobo! Zama ukususa le nkulumo bese ucabanga ukuthi yini Kusukela manje kuqhubeke, uzothola izinto futhi uzozenza. Cabanga ngezinto njengezinhloso okufanele uzizuze, futhi uzokufeza.
2. Anginasiqiniseko
Ukutshela umphathi noma uthisha ukuthi awunaso isiqiniseko ngokuthile ukuthi bayayeka ngokuthembela kumakhono akho. Uma othile ekubuza ukuthi uzokwenza iphrojekthi futhi uthi awunaso isiqiniseko, Ngeke uthembele kumakhono akho, noma kunguyebo noma cha ... kodwa 'anginasiqiniseko' kushiya kuvule umnyango wokungathembani.
Kwesinye isikhathi abantu basebenzisa le nkulumo lapho bengafuni ukucasula abanye abantu noma lapho bengafuni ukuzizwa benamahloni. Kepha into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ukuze ukwazi ukuba ngumuntu wangempela futhi oqotho futhi uzethembe ukuthembeka futhi usho ngokweqiniso okuhambisana nezifiso zakho noma namakhono akho. Uma ungafuni ukuzibophezela entweni ethize, musa nje ... futhi uma ufuna ukukwenza, qhubeka nabo bonke!
3. Angizukuyithola
Le yinkulumo eyonakalisa kakhulu ongayisho kuwe empilweni yakho. Uma ucabanga futhi uzitshela ukuthi ngeke uyithole, ngeke uyenze. Uma usho ngokuzwakalayo ukuthi awukwazi ukufeza izinhloso noma izinhloso zakho, abantu abaseduze kwakho ngeke bathembe amathuba akho noma ngabe unawo.
Umuzwa onawo ngezinto ubalulekile, kepha futhi udinga ukwazi ukuthi uma ufuna ngempela ukuzuza okuthile, uzokufeza ngokubekezela nangokubekezela.. Abantu abaseduze kwakho bafuna ukuzwa amazwi okuzethemba avela kuwe, nokuzethemba kwakho kukudinga kucishe kufane nokudingwa ukuphefumula. Abaholi abazisebenzisi lezi zinhlobo zemishwana ngoba ngaphezu kokwenza uzwakale ubuthakathaka, kuzonciphisa isisusa sakho. Noma kunzima, cabanga ukukufeza, thola izindlela zokwenza ... futhi uzokufeza!
Lezi yimishwana emithathu engangena phakathi kwempilo yakho nezinhloso zakho, yingakho kudingekile ukuthi uqale ukuyikhipha engqondweni yakho bese uqala ukuba nomqondo oqondile owaziyo. ukuthi uma ufuna, ungakuthola.