Ukukhuluma emphakathini kungenye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kwezobuchwepheshe. Kepha ngaphezu kwalokho, ulwazi lokuphila umbukiso womlomo lungaveza izinga elithile lokungazethembi komuntu siqu. Isinyathelo sokuqala sokuya ku- khuluma emphakathini ngokuzethemba ukuqonda ukuthi ukuzwa izinga elithile lokwethuka kwangaphambilini kulesi simo kungokwemvelo ngokuphelele futhi kulungile. Ukucindezela okuguqukayo okulungisa umzimba wakho nengqondo yakho ukufeza le nselelo.
Eqinisweni, cabanga ngenani labalingisi abachaze kaningi kwesinye isikhathi ukuthi, lapho bebhekene nenselelo yendima entsha, babhekana kanjani nokukhathazeka okufana nosuku lokuqala. Ngokunjalo, cabanga ngomlingisi waseshashalazini okuthi, kungakhathalekile isibalo sababukeli abakhona egumbini, enze umsebenzi wakhe ngothando olufanayo. Thatha lesi sibonelo njengephuzu lokukhuthaza elihle ngokwakho.
Amathiphu wokukhuluma komphakathi
Elinye lamaphuzu abaluleke kakhulu ekukhulumeni obala ngukuthi ukulungiselela inkulumo. Kulokhu, ungathembela kubuchwepheshe ukufeza le timu. Kodwa-ke, khumbula ukuthi ubuchwepheshe bungaba yingqophamlando kepha nguwe onomthwalo wangempela.
Ungalungiselela i- umbhalo omncane ukuba nomgwaqo. Intambo ejwayelekile yombukiso engaboniswana nayo iphinde ibuyiswe ngesikhathi lapho ulahlekelwe khona. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ukhulume ngokuzwakalayo ukuze ugcine ukunakwa kwababekhona. Ezinye izikhulumi zihleli ngesikhathi sesethulo. Kodwa-ke, uma unolwazi olunzulu kulolu hlobo lokuhlolwa, ungasukuma uzulazule esiteji ukhombisa ukuphatha isikhala.
Naka kakhulu ulimi. Kodwa-ke, gwema ukuhlukunyezwa kobuchwepheshe. Ikakhulukazi uma izethameli zingakhiwa ngabantu abangenalo ulwazi lobuchwepheshe olunjalo ngendaba yenkulumo.
Ukulawula ukuphefumula kubaluleke kakhulu ukugxila ekuchayekeni. Ngezinye izikhathi, kungaba nzima kakhulu ukuphefumula ngendlela efanele njengoba singabanjwa ngamazwi ethu. Njengalapho ufunda i- umbhalo obhaliwe, hlonipha izikhathi zokhefana nezikhathi, engxoxweni yakho ngomlomo khumbula ukuthi kubalulekile ukuthatha lawa ma-break uphumule.
Lapho uqala ukulungiselela okuqukethwe yinkulumo yakho, into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi wazi kahle ukuthi inkulumo izohlala isikhathi esingakanani. Unesikhathi esingakanani sokwenza inkulumo yakho? Futhi sikhumbula ukuthi kungakuhle ukuthi kubekwe eceleni umugqa wemibuzo eyindilinga yonke.
Ihange ukuze uhlale uzolile
Ukuze uhlale uzolile embukisweni womphakathi kunconywa kakhulu ukuthi ubheke i- ihange lokuphepha. Isibonelo, qaphela leso sibukeli ngobungani obudlulisa intshisekelo kuwe kulokho okushoyo. Lokhu kuqiniswa kungakusiza, ikakhulukazi lapho uqala inkulumo futhi udinga isikhathi esithile ukuze uzivumelanise nokuzizwa uhlanganiswe ngokuphelele kuleli qiniso elisha.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukukhiqiza intshisekelo enkulu kubabukeli, buza imibuzo engaphenduleki ukuze ubenze bacabange.