Kungenzeka ukuthi wake wezwa ngalesi sifo kepha ungacaci kahle ukuthi siyini. Abanye bayiphambanisa ne-autism noma ezinye izifo zokukhula. Kuyadingeka ukwazi ukuthi yini i-Asperger syndrome ukuqonda kangcono izingane zakho uma zinalesi sifo, uma unomfundi ekilasini onalesi sifo, uma wazi othile okutholile, njll.
I-Asperger's Syndrome ingesinye sezifo ezivame kakhulu futhi ezingaziwa kakhulu i-Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD). Izici ze-Asperger syndrome azinzima kangako kunezinye izinhlobo zokuphazamiseka kwesimo se-autism. Njengoba bengaziwa kangako, abantu bangacabanga ukuthi yinto eyodwa noma enye noma okubi kakhulu, bangabandlulula abantu ngokungaqondi ukuthi kwenzekani kuwe futhi ungazi ukuthi 'kufanele' bakuphathe kanjani.
Uma uhlangana nomuntu one-Asperger's syndrome, ungabona izinto ngokushesha, ikakhulukazi ezimbili zazo: ungumuntu ohlakaniphile futhi unezinkinga ngamakhono okuxhumana nabantu. Cishe akakuthandi ukuthintana ngokomzimba futhi angahle akhathale ngezihloko ezithile azithandayo. Kwezinye izimo bangaba nokuziphatha okuphindaphindayo.
Izici
- Ukungabi khona kokubambezeleka kolimi: ulimi oluhle namakhono okuqonda.
- Kumuntu obukayo ngaphandle kokwazi i-syndrome kungabonakala njengengane ye-neurotypical eziphatha ngendlela ehlukile.
- Bafuna ukuhlanganisa futhi bahlanganyele nabanye, kepha bantule amakhono okuxhumana nabantu
- Kakhulu emphakathini ngoba abayiqondi imithetho yezenhlalo
- Ukungabi nozwela
- Ukuxhumana kwamehlo okulinganiselwe
- Ukuxhumana okuncane ezingxoxweni, akuqondi ukuthinta, ukukhuluma komzimba noma ukubhuqa
- Izintshisekelo ezingakhathazeka (ukuqoqa izinto)
- Inkumbulo enhle kepha unenkinga yokuqonda imiqondo engaqondakali
- Amaphethini wokukhuluma ahlukile kwesinye isikhathi
- Abaqondi ukuhlekisa noma amahlaya
- Abaqondi uhlobo lokupha noma lokwamukela engxoxweni
- Ubunhloli obumaphakathi noma ngaphezulu kwesilinganiso
- Kungahle kubambezeleke amakhono emoto futhi kubonakale kuxaka
Ukuxilongwa
Akulula ukuthola i-Asperger syndrome usemncane. Uma ucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho ingaba nalesi sifo kuzofanele uyiyise kudokotela wezingane ukuze idluliselwe kuchwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo egxile ku-ASD. Kungaba isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo (ukuxilonga nokuphatha izinkinga ngemizwa nokuziphatha), isazi sezinzwa zezingane (siphatha izimo zobuchopho), udokotela wezingane othuthukayo (ogxile ezinkingeni zokukhuluma nezolimi nezinye izinkinga zentuthuko), udokotela wezifo zengqondo (unolwazi ngezimo zempilo yengqondo futhi angabeka imishanguzo yokubelapha).
Kungenzeka ukuthi kunomsebenzi wemikhakha eyahlukene phakathi kwabachwepheshe. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ingane yakho ingabona udokotela noma uchwepheshe ongaphezu koyedwa ngaphambi kokuthola ukuxilongwa. Udokotela uzokubuza imibuzo ngokuziphatha kwengane yakho, ingafana nokulandelayo:
- Yiziphi izici ezinayo futhi uqale nini ukubona ukuziphatha okungavamile?
- Ingane yakho yafunda nini ukukhuluma? Uxhumana kanjani nabanye?
- Ngabe igxila emsebenzini othile?
- Unabo abangane noma uyasebenzisana nabanye?
Ngemuva kwalokho uzobheka ingane yakho ezimweni ezahlukahlukene ukuze uzibonele mathupha ukuthi ukhuluma futhi uziphatha kanjani.
Ukwelashwa
Yonke ingane yehlukile, ngakho-ke ayikho indlela yobukhulu obulingana nayo yonke indlela. Udokotela wakho angadinga ukuzama izindlela zokwelashwa ezimbalwa ukuthola eyodwa esebenzayo. Ukwelashwa kungafaka:
- Thuthukisa amakhono omphakathi. Ngamaqembu noma ngezikhathi ezithile, abelaphi bafundisa ingane yakho ukuthi ingaxhumana kanjani nabanye futhi iziveze ngendlela efanelekile. Amakhono ezenhlalo avame ukufundwa kangcono ngokumodela indlela yokuziphatha ejwayelekile.
- Ukwelashwa kwenkulumo nolimi. Lokhu kusiza ukuthuthukisa amakhono okuxhumana wengane yakho. Isibonelo, uzofunda ukusebenzisa iphethini ejwayelekile yezwi lapho ukhuluma esikhundleni sethoni eqondile. Uzothola nezifundo zokuthi ungaba kanjani nengxoxo yabantu ababili futhi uqonde izinkomba zenhlalo njengokuthinta izandla nokuxhumana ngamehlo.
- Ukwelashwa kokuziphatha kwengqondo. Siza ingane yakho ukuthi iguqule ukucabanga kwayo, ukuze ikwazi ukulawula kangcono imizwa nokuziphatha kwayo okuphindaphindayo. Uzokwazi ukuphatha izinto ezinjengokugqashuka, ukuthukuthela, noma ukuphazamiseka.
- Imfundo nokuqeqeshwa kwabazali. Uzofunda amasu amaningi afanayo afundiswa ingane yakho ukuze ukwazi ukusebenza ngamakhono okuxhumana nabo ekhaya. Eminye imindeni ibuye ibone owelapha ukuyisiza ikwazi ukubhekana nezinselelo zokuhlala nomuntu one-Asperger.