Muva nje ngibona kubaphikisi abaningi ubuso bengcindezi nokukhathala, lokhu kujwayelekile uma ufunda isikhathi eside, noma ungaphumuli kahle noma ungadli uphilile noma uzisule. Imibuthano emnyama yomphikisi iyabanika kanye nemizwa emibi abangaba nayo ngezikhathi ezithile ... futhi. Ukucindezeleka nokukhathazeka kungadlala kubaphikisi abangazilungiseleli kahle noma abanemikhuba yokufunda engalungile.
Ukuze ukwazi ukulungiselela isivivinyo sokuncintisana, udinga ukwenza konke okusemandleni akho, yiba nokuhleleka okuhle, umthwalo omningi futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, yenza lokhu okwenzayo ngomdlandla futhi wazi ukuthi uzonikela ngakho konke okusemandleni akho, kungakhathalekile ukuthi yimuphi umphumela ozowuthola. Umphumela uzoba ongenandaba nawe ngoba uzobe ubeke konke ohlangothini lwakho futhi uma kungenakuba njalo, impela kuzoba namathuba amaningi.
Kepha namhlanje ngifuna ukukunikeza izimfihlo ezithile ukuze ube ngumphikisi osezingeni eliphakeme nokuthi ukudlulisa okuphikisayo kungabi yinto eyisicefe kuwe. Ungalahlekelwa yimininingwane futhi uma kunesidingo bhala phansi ephepheni noma umake leli khasi njengezintandokazi ukuze ukwazi ukubuyela kulolu lwazi noma nini lapho ludingeka khona kuwe.
Thola indawo yokufunda
Umtapo wezincwadi, igumbi lokulala noma igumbi lokuphumula ... ukhetha indawo kodwa izimo zokutadisha kuzodingeka zilunge ngokuphelele ukuze ukwazi ukugxila futhi wenze okusemandleni akho ezifundweni zakho. Khumbula ukuthi inani lamahora alingcono, kepha ikhwalithi onayo ezifundweni zakho. Ukuchitha amahora amaningi ufunda okuphikisayo ngaphandle kokwenza ngempela ngenxa yeziphazamiso noma ukwehlisa amandla ukuchitha isikhathi.
Kuyadingeka ukuthi indawo oyikhethele ukutadisha kwakho yindawo engafudumele kakhulu (ubungalala) noma ibande kakhulu (uzolahlekelwa ukugxila), kuzodingeka ube nokukhanya okwanele kwemvelo futhi uma kusebusuku ukukhanya okufakelwayo okungalimazi amehlo, ideski elinesihlalo esifanelekile ukuze ungaphoqi ukuma kwakho futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ngeke kudingeke ube neziphazamiso zanoma yiluphi uhlobo.
Ukuhlela okuhle
Esinye isici esibaluleke kakhulu okufanele usicabangele ukuba ngumphikisi omuhle ukuhlela kwakho. Ungaba ne-ajenda noma isheduli odongeni, noma yikuphi okunethezeka kakhulu kuwe, kepha hlela isifundo sakho nsuku zonke ukuze wazi ukuthi uzofundani usuku ngalunye. Ngakho-ke ungahlela isifundo sakho ngokususelwa ezinsukwini osele nazo ukumboza sonke isihloko ngaphandle kokuthi ubhekane nengcindezi yezinsuku ezimbalwa ezedlule.
Ukuhlelwa kwesifundo sakho kufanele kuhlanganiswe neminye imisebenzi oyenzayo ngesikhathi sakho sansuku zonke, njengomsebenzi, eyunivesithi, ezemidlalo, eyomndeni neminye imisebenzi yansuku zonke ongeke wayinaka noma ngabe ufunda ukuhlolwa kokuncintisana.
Ekuhleleni kwakho awukwazi ukuphuthelwa ukuba nazo zonke izinto ezidingekayo nokutadisha ngamasu okufunda ilungele ukufunda konke okuqukethwe kalula, njengezinkomba, izifinyezo namasu wokukhumbula.
Ukuzindla ngokusebenza kwakho okuhle kwengqondo
Ukuzindla akusebenzeli kuphela impilo engcono, ukukhulula intukuthelo noma ukwehlisa ukukhathazeka kwakho. Ukuzindla kunezinzuzo eziningi abantu bonke abangazithola inqobo nje uma befuna ukuzola nokukhululeka. Ukuzindla nakho kuzokusiza ukuthi ube nokuhlushwa okukhulu ngoba ungenza izinqumo ezingcono nganoma yisiphi isikhathi empilweni yakho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuzoba yindlela yokulawula ingqondo yakho ngezikhathi zengcindezi ukuze uphume ngomusa futhi ube nemiphumela engcono.
Yiba nokuzethemba
Ukutadisha okunye ukuphikisana kuyacindezela, amathayi futhi kubonakala sengathi izinsuku azipheli. Ngemuva kokudlula kokuhlolwa nezinzwa esiswini ziyesabeka size siyazi imiphumela futhi sazi ukuthi kuzoba yini ngekusasa lethu. Lezi zinzwa zizokwenzeka kuwe kuphela futhi zikwehlise uma ungazethembi. Uma ucabanga ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle, kuzokwenzeka. Uma ucabanga ukuthi izinto zizohamba kahle, uzothula ukuthola izindaba ezinhle ngesikhathi esifanele. Wenze konke okusemandleni akho futhi ufunde ngokucophelela sonke isikhathi onaso, isizathu esanele sokuba uzethembe ngokwengeziwe!