Ingane ingashukunyiswa yizimbangela ezahlukahlukene njengoba sibonile ku- isihloko esandulele. Ake sihlolisise lezi zimo nokuthi ungabhekana kanjani nesisombululo esihle kunazo zonke. Okuthile kufanele kucace bha, lapho leli qiniso selifakiwe kuphela uphawu lokuthi kukhona okwenzekayo, ukuqaphela kungusizo olungcono kakhulu esingaluhambisa ekuqaleni.
Cishe eminyakeni yobudala eyi-7 noma engu-8, izingane ziyaqaphela ukuthi zingobani nendawo ezihlala kuyo emndenini wazo, abangane bazo kanye nesikole sabo. Bavame ukugxeka bona kanye nabanye, futhi ukufuna ngokweqile kungenza bazizwe bengakwazi ukufeza izinhloso ezingenakwenzeka, okungaholela uzizwe ungashukunyiswa. Ukusebenza kwesikole esiphansi, ukusilela emuva ekilasini, ukubhekana nezifundo ezithile ngobunzima obukhulu, njll. Kungenza umcabango ongemuhle wokuthi "Angikulungele lokhu noma lokho" kuvele ekhanda lakho futhi ngokuzenzekelayo, ukwenqatshwa kwakho konke okuphakamisa umzamo, ukutadisha noma izinhloso akujabulisi futhi bakhetha ukusebenzisa i- "Kungani okunye kukuhle kwanoma yini? » ngaphambi kokuthi "ngiyakwazi."
Bese kuba khona uhlangothi oluphambene, lokho ingane enamandla aphezulu ongqondongqondo abaqale babhoreke ekilasini ngoba uyabhekelelwa neqembu bese kuthi ngemuva kwesikhathi aqale ukungabi nandaba nesikole, umuzwa odalwe ukungalungi kahle lapho ezizwa ebhekene nakho.
Ekugcineni sithola icala eliphazamisa ngokulinganayo le- izingane lapho kuvela khona ukwehliswa ngaphandle kwesizathu esisobala kepha lapho kutholakala ukuzivikela ngokweqile, ukutotosa kanye nokuvumelana ngezifiso. Banakho futhi bathola konke, okuhle noma okubi, balwela noma cha, ngakho-ke kulula kubo ukwamukela isikhundla sobuvila nokuntuleka komdlandla ngoba nje bengenazo izisusa zokubakhuthaza.
Njengoba sibona, thola imbangela (kwesinye isikhathi eyinkimbinkimbi) ye- ukwehliswa esikhundleni kwengane kuyindlela yokwamukela, kanye nochwepheshe ofanele, abazali nothisha, isisombululo esifanelekile.