Uma ucishe mayelana nokusho iziqu zasekolishi ezizayo futhi uyawuphazamisa umqondo we hamba uye komunye umuzi Kungenxa yokuthi ufuna ukuzimela, ngoba iziqu zaseyunivesithi ofuna ukuzenza azitholakali edolobheni lakho, noma ngoba lelo banga alikufinyeleli eyunivesithi eseduze nekhaya lakho kepha eyunivesithi esedolobheni eliseduze, Nazi ezinye izinto okufanele wazi uma unquma ukutadisha ngaphandle kwedolobha lakho.
Okudingayo ukutadisha kwelinye idolobha okungelona elakho
Uma uthi nhlá ungabonakala kulula ukuthatha amapotimende akho uye kwelinye idolobha uyokwenza iziqu zaseyunivesithi ozifunayo, kodwa akulula kangako, futhi sifuna ukuthi ulibone lelo qiniso ukuze ulinganise ubuhle nobubi bokuhamba kwenye indawo okungenani iminyaka engu-4, namuhla ehlala iziqu zaseyunivesithi:
- Thola ifulethi, uma kungenzeka, eduze neyunivesithi ukuze ugweme izindleko zokuhamba: Into yokuqala okufanele uyenze uma usuvele uthathe isinqumo sokuyofunda phesheya ukuthola iflethi. Uma ukwazi ukuba wedwa endlini bese uphelele, kepha yimali ebaluleke kakhulu yanyanga zonke ozodinga ukuyengeza ezindlekweni ezivele zifunda ukutadisha.
- Uma uhlala efulethini nabanye: Ungaqondana nabantu abahlobene nawe, ukuthanda kwakho namagugu wakho futhi awunankinga, kepha akuyona into evame kakhulu. Uma ukujwayele ukuhlala nabazali bakho noma uwedwa futhi manje sekufanele nihlale ndawonye, izingxabano nezinkinga ezahlukahlukene ezihlala ndawonye ngokujwayelekile futhi ezijwayelekile zihlanganisa kuzoba njalo. Kumele futhi kuthiwe umuntu ohlala naye egumbini elilodwa kancane kancane bazoba abangani abakhulu.
- Funda ukuphatha imali: Uma umncane futhi abazali bakho bekuthumela imali yanyanga zonke yezindleko zakho, kufanele ufunde ukuphatha leyo mali ukuze ikwazi ukuza kuwe ngayo yonke into: ukudla, amanothi, izincwadi, ukuphuma, izingubo, izindleko ezingeziwe, njll.
- Ngeke ube nompheki noma okokuhlanza: Uzoba ngumnikazi wempilo yakho kepha futhi nezibopho nezibopho impilo yakho efanayo ebandakanya: ukwenza ukudla, ukuhlanza indlu, ukuthenga ukudla ngasikhathi sinye, ukuya ekilasini nokwenza amashejuli wokufunda ajwayelekile, kunjalo.
Kungani le ndatshana? Ngoba sonke eminyakeni eyi-18 sesilinganise kakhulu noma ngaphansi ithuba elihle lokuya kwelinye idolobha ukuyofunda futhi sithole inkululeko, kepha konke lokho okucwebezelayo akulona igolide: linezinto zalo ezinhle ezinhle (akekho okuyalelayo, akekho okuyalelayo, cha unezibopho ezibekwe abanye, akekho olawula okwenzayo, udla okufunayo futhi uma ufuna, phuma kakhulu, njll.) kepha futhi inezinto zayo ezimbi kakhulu, futhi ukwazi konke, kulapho ungenza ukucabanga , icatshangelwe kahle futhi ngenxa yalokho, ongeke uzisole ngayo kusasa.