Esinye sezincomo zethu (esinye sezinconywa kakhulu) ukuthi, lapho uqala ukutadisha, kwenze endaweni lapho ukhululeke khona nalapho unesikhala esanele sokwenza yonke imisebenzi ngaphandle kwezinkinga. Ngokusobala, kuzoba nezikhathi lapho lokhu kungeke kwenzeke. Kungenxa yokuthi siyavakasha, ngoba sivakashele noma ngenxa nje yokuthi asikwazi ukunika amandla indawo enjalo.
Ngalezi zikhathi kuzofanele sibheke uhlobo oluthile lwe isixazululo. Kufanele siqhubeke nokufunda futhi, yize indawo leyo ingafanelekile kakhulu, sizophoqeleka ukuthi sithole indlela efanelekile yokubuyekeza amanothi. Kunezindlela eziningi zokukwenza, yize lapha sizophawula ngokujwayelekile nokusetshenzisiwe. Bangase bangabi ntofontofo kakhulu noma babe nempilo, kepha kuyacaca ukuthi bayisisombululo okufanele basicabangele.
Enye yezindlela ezaziwa kakhulu ukwenza ukufunda ukuhlala. Ngale ndlela, sihlala sihlukanise imilenze bese sibeka amanothi ngaphezulu kwawo. Kuzofanele sehlise amakhanda ethu kancane, kepha sizokwazi ukufunda okuqukethwe. Enye indlela efanayo "ukulala phansi" ubheke phansi, kepha uncike ngezindololwane phansi. Ngakho-ke futhi singafunda.
Ekugcineni, futhi sinethuba lokufuna into eyenza ifayela le- umsebenzi wetafula, hlala phansi, ubeke phezu kwethu ukuze sithuthukise indlela esifundisisa ngayo kancane. Ngaphandle kokungabaza, lokhu kwamuva kuyathembisa kakhulu.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi kuningi izindlela eziningi zokufunda. Sixoxe kuphela ngokujwayelekile, ngakho-ke ngobuhlakani obuncane uzoba nethuba lokuthola izindlela ezingasimangaza nathi.