Izinkinga zezezimali zingalimaza impilo yakho futhi zingakwenza ukuthi ushiye amaphrojekthi akho ezifundo noma ochwepheshe. Lapho lokhu kwenzeka kubonakala sengathi akukho ukukhanya ekugcineni komhubhe nokuthi yonke into imnyama kakhulu ukuthi ingaqhubeka nokulwa. Izikweletu, ukungabi nemali ... konke lokhu kukwenza uzizwe ungemuhle nokuthi ukuzinza kwakho emoyeni kuyathinteka.
Iqiniso ukuthi awukwazi ukumisa isikhashana impilo yakho uphinde ubuyele emuva lapho izinto bezikuhambela kahle ngokwezimali. Impilo ayisebenzi kanjalo. Kumele uvuke lapho ukhona manje ungaphoqeleli izimo, mane wenze ingxenye yakho ukuze le nkinga yezezimali ingakulimazi kakhulu futhi akufanele uhlupheke esikhathini esifushane noma eside. Inkinga yezezimali akudingeki ukuthi ikwenze ulahle amaphupho akho, sekuyisikhathi sokuthi uqale phansi wenze izinto kahle.
Ungavumeli ukwesaba kukuthathe
Uqinisekile ukuthi wesabe, kuyinto ejwayelekile. Kufanele ushintshe izinto empilweni yakho ukuze ukwazi ukuya phambili. Mhlawumbe ukuze ugcine ibhizinisi lakho futhi uqhubeke nokuphila kulo noma uqhubeke nokufunda kufanele ushintshe ikhaya lakho libe ngelincane elibiza imali encane kuwe, noma uthengise imoto noma mhlawumbe… usebenze kakhulu. Kepha okubalulekile ukuthi ungaweli ekuphelelweni yithemba, kepha ukuthi uhlale phansi uthole izixazululo.
Kumele ukhumbule ukuthi imiphumela eyenzeka kuwe kufanele ibe yizizathu zokuthi wenze okuthile. Bheka izinto ezenzeka kuwe ngokungathathi hlangothi. Thola okushoyo ekhonweni lokuzivuselela wena nesimo sakho. Ukusuka lapho, ukuphela kwendlela yokuqhubeka ukukhuphuka.
Cabanga ongakuxazulula
Ngokuya ngobukhulu besimo obhekene naso, ungahle ube nezinketho ezimbalwa ongazisebenzisa. Okokuqala, hlola nomndeni wakho noma umlingani ukuthola ukuthi yiziphi izixazululo ezinhle kakhulu onazo etafuleni. Kufanele uthole izindlela zokukhokha izikweletu zakho ngaphandle kokuwela esikweletini. Cabanga ngamakati okufanele uwaqede, ungathathi imali ozoyikhokha ngoba uzogcina usukweleta kakhulu ... Beka kuqala okubaluleke kakhulu empilweni yakho nakokunye, kubeke eceleni, noma okwesikhashana.
Dala uhlelo lokuthuthukisa
Kubalulekile ukuthi uhlale etafuleni ngepensela nephepha bese uqala ukwenza uhlelo lokwenza ngcono. Uma izinto zingabi kubi (noma uma), manje kusele ukucabanga ngokuthi ungazenza kanjani zithuthuke kalula, noma ngabe zihamba kancane. Hlela izidingo zakho siqu, zemfundo noma zobungcweti. Yize kubonakala sengathi impilo yakho ayisalawuleki, iqiniso ukuthi ungayilawula ngaphezu kokucabanga ngokwenza izinqumo ngezidingo zakho.
Udinga ukuthi ufunde ukuhlala uphile kahle. Qala ukudla ekhaya, ukuthatha izithuthi zomphakathi ukuya ezindaweni, ukunciphisa izindleko ocingweni lwakho, ukuthengisa ongakudingi ekhaya ... Yenza konke okusemandleni ukunciphisa izindleko nokuthi ngasikhathi sinye ungakhuphula imali oyitholayo.
Beka i-ego yakho eceleni
Kungenzeka wake wacabanga ukuthi awusoze waba nezinkinga zezezimali, kepha isithunzi sibaluleke kakhulu kunakho konke lokho. Shiya i-ego yakho eceleni kwakho futhi ujabulele amakhuphoni esaphulelo avela esitolo. Uma ungathenga ngokuthengisa bese wonga imali, konke kuzoba ngcono. Uma kufanele uthengise imoto yakho bese uqala ukusebenzisa izithuthi zomphakathi, cabanga ukuthi kungahle kube kwesikhashana. Cabanga ukuthi akuwena wedwa emhlabeni okufanele ulwe nezinkinga zezimali, kepha ukuthi okubalulekile ukufunda nokuphuma kuzo.
Lokho kusho nokuthi kuzodingeka ubheke amathuba emisebenzi okungenzeka ukuthi ubungakaze ucabange ukuthi uzowasebenzisa. Mhlawumbe ukuba ngumuntu othola imali esitolo esikhulu kungaba yindlela yokuphuma ezinkingeni. Kukhona nemisebenzi ekhethekile eguquguqukayo njengokugada izingane, ukuhamba ngezinja ... Imisebenzi eyodwa engakusiza ukuthi ube nokungeziwe ekupheleni kwenyanga futhi ngenxa yalokho akudingeki ukwenze ngaphandle kwamathuba akho ezifundo noma amaphupho akho omsebenzi. Impilo ingaba lula kakhulu kunalokho okuzwakalayo, noma ngabe kunamaqhubu kwesinye isikhathi. Okubalulekile ukuthatha izintambo.