Siphila ezweni lezenhlalo, abantu bayizidalwa zomphakathi futhi sithanda ukusebenzisana (cishe wonke umuntu). Kunzima kakhulu kuwe ukuthi uzithole kunoma yisiphi isenzakalo lapho ungaba wedwa ngokuphelele ngaphandle kokuthi ukufuna ngokukhethekile. Noma ngabe uwedwa awuwedwa ngokuphelele ngoba namuhla futhi sibonga ubuchwepheshe obusha, Noma ungenabo abantu abasondelene ngokomzimba, ngomyalezo obhaliwe noma ngocingo, ibanga ngokushesha alibi yilutho.
Ukuxhumana nabantu kunezinzuzo eziningi, kepha ukuba wedwa nakho kunakho, futhi ukuba wedwa ngezikhathi ezithile nakho kubaluleke kakhulu. Kwesinye isikhathi, kuyadingeka ukuvala umhlaba ngokuphelele futhi uphile ngokugcwele kuwe ukuze wazi, uthuthuke futhi sebenzisa amandla akho aphelele. Kuyindlela yokwenza ngcono ebhizinisini lakho, ezifundweni zakho nakuzo zonke izinto ofuna ukuziphakamisa empilweni yakho. Kodwa ukuchitha isikhathi uwedwa kungakusiza kanjani uzizwe ungcono?
Unesikhathi sokucabanga (ngempela)
Abantu bahlala becabanga, sithatha izinqumo ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi sihlala sinokuthile engqondweni, kepha asiyinaki imicabango ebaluleke ngempela naleyo ezosisiza ukuba sibe ngcono futhi sizizwe sihle. Cabanga ngesizungu ingakusiza ukuxazulula izingxabano zangaphakathi, ukwazi ngempela ukuthi ufuna ukwenzani noma iyiphi indlela ofuna ukuyilandela. Ungakwenza ngokuzindla, ngokucabanga noma ngokuhambahamba, kepha gxila ekubeni nengxoxo nengaphakathi lakho, uzomangala.
Ukhiqiza ngokwengeziwe futhi ube nobuciko
Uma uwedwa awuxhomekile kwabanye abantu ukuthi bazokujabulisa noma babajabulise, ngakho-ke ungathuthukisa impilo yakho ngoba konke kuncike kuwe. Ungaqala ukuzethemba, ukuze ukwazi ukufeza amaphrojekthi akho futhi usebenze kuwo. Ukusebenza eqenjini kunezinzuzo eziningi, kepha imicabango yokugcina ukuthola ithuba elilungile kuzofanele ihlale yodwa.
Ungasebenza kanzima
Kwesinye isikhathi lapho kusebenza eqenjini kuba nomqondo wokuthi "uma ngingakwenzi, omunye umuntu uzokwenza." Yize leyo nkulumo yenza umthetho womzamo omncane ucace, lapho kufanele usebenze wedwa lowo mcabango awukho futhi kunomsebenzi onzima kuphela okufanele wenziwe. Uma ungawenzi lo msebenzi, akekho omunye umuntu ozowenza, futhi uma ungawenzi, uzoba nemizwa yecala ngokukwazi ukwenza okuningi kodwa ungawenzi.
Ngeke ube neziphazamiso
Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma uwedwa ngokuphelele ezifundweni zakho, emsebenzini wakho noma kunoma yisiphi esinye isici, ngeke ube neziphazamiso ezingalimaza umkhiqizo wakho womsebenzi. Ungagxila ekutholeni umsebenzi wenziwe kahle nasekuqedeleni imigomo yakho njengokuza kuqala.
Uzosula ingqondo yakho
Sonke sidinga isikhathi sokucabanga nokuvuselela amabhethri ethu, kodwa futhi nokusula izingqondo zethu. Uma uthi awusebenzisi isikhathi sosuku lwakho ukusula ingqondo yakho noma uqamba amanga noma unenkinga. Sigcwele njalo imisebenzi: ekhaya, emsebenzini, nezingane, njll. Ngakho-ke uma ungazitholela isikhathi sakho, udinga ukwazi ukuthi usisebenzisa kanjani ngokuhlakanipha.. Abantu abaningi bazizwa bedidekile uma benesikhathi sabo, bajwayele ukungabi nesikhathi kangangokuthi lapho besenza bagcina bezwa umuzwa ongaziwa wokuthi bengelutho ngaphakathi.
Kwesinye isikhathi kuyadingeka ukuthi ucishe ifoni, ikhompyutha, uvale amehlo akho, uphefumule umoya omusha, ucabange futhi uphile okwesikhashana kanye ngosuku. Ukuxhumana nawe kuzokusiza ukuthi ufinyelele amandla akho aphelele kunoma yisiphi isici sempilo yakho.
Ungenza konke ofuna ukukwenza
Uma uwedwa unesibopho sokuzijabulisa kwakho kuphela, ukujabula kanye nezibopho zakho. Awudingi ukwethemba abanye abantu ngoba kufanele uzethembe wena kanye namathuba akho. Lokhu kuzokhulisa ukuzethemba kwakho kakhulu futhi ukuthi uzizwe ukhululekile ukwenza lokho ofuna ukukwenza ngempilo yakho.
Ungaxhuma nawe
Wonke umuntu ukhala ngokufanele akwenze nangalokho akwenzayo ngaphandle kokuzizwa enjengako, banomona ngokwenziwa abanye kodwa abagxile ekwenzeni ngcono izimpilo zabo. Kungani lokhu kwenzeka? Ngoba abazixhumanisi nabo, abakhulumi bodwa ngalokho abakufunayo empilweni. Ungajabulela imicabango yakho nezinto ozithandayo ngaphandle kokugxekwa, ungasesha okukuthandayo ngaphandle kokwahlulela. Ngabe ulindeni ukukhipha amandla akho aphelele?