Umuntu angahlangabezana nezigaba empilweni yakhe lapho isithako ku ukunganaki ikhona kakhulu. Uhlobo lwesithukuthezi okufanele lulalelwe kunokuba luthuliswe ukuzama ukuqonda ukuthi uthini umlayezo wemvelo isimo sengqondo.
Kwesinye isikhathi abangane abaseduze bazozama ukujabulisa umuntu ongakhathali ngamathiphu asheshayo afana nokuthi, "Kufanele uzikhuthaze wena." Kodwa-ke, isixazululo asikho kulolu hlobo lwezinkomba ezinikezwe ngenhloso enhle kakhulu kepha ukuthi, kwesinye isikhathi, zenza umxhumanisi azizwe entula uzwela ukuphendula.
Ukunganaki nokudinwa
Ukuntuleka kokuzwela okungavela naku-protagonist uqobo ohlangabezana nesimo salolu hlobo uma yena umahluleli ngendlela engemihle yokuzizwa ngale ndlela.
La ukuzidabukela Kungukubonakaliswa kokukhathalela umuntu azinikeza khona ngokuqonda, ukuzama ukuqonda ukuthi yini imbangela yalesi simo sengqondo. Ukukhathazeka kuyakhula lapho lesi simo sokunganaki singagcini isikhathi, kepha sihlala njalo ekhalendeni elijwayelekile.
Isizathu esenza umuntu oyedwa azizwe ngale ndlela singahluka kakhulu kunesizathu esaholela ekutheni omunye umuntu azizwe ngale ndlela. Kungenzeka kwenzeke ukuthi kube nezizathu eziningana ezibangele lo mphumela. Ulwazi lwe imbangela kubalulekile ukukhulisa ukuqonda okubalulekile okuzungeze lesi simo ikhambi lalo elincike kulo mbuzo.
Lapho umuntu ehlangabezana nokunganaki kaningi, ngandlela thile, uzizwa ekude kunqubo ejwayelekile ethatha izinsuku zabo. Ukunganakwa kungaba khona ezimweni ezihluke kakhulu.
Kungazwakala futhi ngomunye umuntu owenza i- umsebenzi wezandlaKodwa-ke, uyekile ukuzizwa ebalulekile emsebenzini wakhe. Kwesinye isikhathi ukunganaki nakho kungakhombisa isidingo soshintsho engxenyeni yomuntu ozwa ukuthi lesi sehluko sempilo yakhe sesiphelile. Kepha uyamelana nokuthatha isinyathelo sokwenza isinqumo esisha ngenxa yokwesaba. Lapho umuntu ehlangabezana nophawu lokunganaki okuvamile, kufanele futhi babonisane nalesi simo ukuze bakwazi ukukhipha izimbangela zalokhu kungakhululeki.
Amashabhu wokuzikhulisa
Ezingeni lezengqondo, kunezinsizakusebenza ezahlukahlukene zokusekela nezokusesha kulabo abacwile kule nqubo yenguquko. Ngokwesibonelo, imihlangano yokufundisana futhi ukukhula komuntu kuyondla ikakhulukazi kulolu daba. Izikhala ezikhulisa ukukhuthazeka okubalulekile ngoba umhlanganyeli naye angafunda kokuhlangenwe nakho okwabiwe ngabanye abantu.
Izifundo zokuzikhulisa
I-Los izincwadi zokuzisiza Zifunwa kakhulu emakethe ngoba abafundi abaningi bazibeka phambili lezi zihloko. Kodwa-ke, ukufunwa kwencwadi eshiya uphawu lomuntu ophambili ku-protagonist akuhlali kuthatha uhlobo lokuthengisa kakhulu. Umfundi ngamunye uhlukile futhi unezidingo zakhe.
Yenza usesho olwenzelwe wena ngesihloko sentshisekelo ngokuya ngesisusa sakho ngalesi sikhathi. Bheka ngokucophelela iziphakamiso zezitolo zezincwadi nemitapo yolwazi ukuthola iziphakamiso ezahlukahlukene.
Ukwelashwa kwengqondo
Isigaba sokunganaki asikhululekile ngoba umuntu kufanele enze umzamo owengeziwe wokwenza inqubo ejwayelekile. I- ukwelashwa kwengqondo Kungaba futhi insiza yokusekela kulabo abathuthukisa izinsiza namakhono amasha kumongo walesi sikhala sokwelashwa.
Inqubo equkethe izikhathi ezahlukahlukene futhi lapho i-protagonist ineseluleko sikachwepheshe.
Ungasinqoba kanjani isikhathi sokunganaki futhi ukhiqize ngokwengeziwe?
1. Beka umgomo wesikhashana. Isinyathelo sokuqala singabaluleka kakhulu kuleli cala.
2. Izifundo zobuhlakani obungokomzwelo zabasebenzi. Isici esingokomzwelo sikhona kakhulu enkampanini. Ngalesi sizathu, ochwepheshe abaningi baqeqeshiwe kule ndaba hhayi ngamakhono obuchwepheshe kuphela.
3. Hlakulela isikhathi sakho samahhala. Lapho ibhalansi phakathi kwezinkambu zobungcweti nezomuntu siqu yephuliwe, kubalulekile ukubuyisa lokhu kuzwana phakathi kwalezi zinkambu zombili. Ukuphumula kubalulekile. Ungaxhumana futhi nabasebenza nabo basehhovisi kuzinhlelo ngemuva komsebenzi.
4. Buyekeza iphrojekthi yakho yokuphila efanele futhi uthathe izinqumo ezihambisana nale nhloso. Kungahle kwenzeke ukuthi okulindele esikhashaneni esedlule kwehlukile kokukhona manje.
5. Bhala phansi imisebenzi yakho ku-ajenda futhi nokubekisa isikhala sokuphumula phakathi nesonto. Isibonelo, ungabhalisela isifundo ngesihloko osithandayo.