La ubusha yisikhathi sokukhula lapho kuchazwa khona izinguquko ezisheshayo, futhi ezibaluleke kakhulu, zokukhula ngokomqondo. Yiso kanye lesi sici esidinga ukuthi abazali babe namandla amakhulu okulawula isimo ukuze baqondise izingane zabo kahle, kepha ukubasiza kubandakanya ukuqonda ukuthi kwenzekani kubo, ukuthi bacabangani, kungani benza izinqumo ezithile noma ukuthi kungani benza ngendlela ethile. Isigaba semfundo kusuka eminyakeni eyi-12 kuya kwengu-16 kuyinkimbinkimbi ikakhulukazi. Uma ufuna ukwazi ukuthi ubhekane nani sikuqondisa ngezansi.
Ingane yakho iqala ukukhombisa ukuzimela okukhulu, ithanda ukuba nezindlela zayo futhi inentshisekelo ikakhulukazi ezinkingeni zenhlalo, izwela kakhulu ngokwenzekayo eduze kwayo, lokhu ngokungangabazeki kuzoba inkomba yokuthi unembeza wayo womphakathi uyakhiwa. Mkhuthaze futhi umncome ngokuqeqeshwa kwakhe njengesakhamuzi esinokwethenjelwa futhi esizibophezele nomhlaba ahlala kuwo, futhi unqande izindlela zokuziphatha - ngisho nokufuna ilungelo - ezephula ilungelo lenkululeko yabanye abantu.
Yize eqala ukuba nemibono ecacile futhi akhombise intshisekelo ekhethekile yokufunda, uyakudinga ukugqugquzela okuningi kunangaphambilini, ngakho-ke ukuhlinzeka ngesikhuthazo esidingekayo kubalulekile ukuthi bathuthukise wonke amandla abo.
Kuzoba yinto ejwayelekile futhi ukuthi abe ngumhlubuki kunokujwayelekile, ikakhulukazi uma uzama ukuphoqa izinto kuye "ngoba nje." Inkhulumomphendvulwano ibalulekile ukusungula ubudlelwano bokubekezelelana nokuhlonipha izinhlangothi zombili.
Qala ukuba umuzwa ojulile wobungane nokwethembekaUzobona ukuthi ukwethemba kwakhe kuwe kwehlile nokuthi ukubeka kakhulu kubangani bakhe, empeleni bazomthonya kakhulu. Ungazami ukuguqula lokhu kuziphatha, shiya umnyango uvulekele umkhandlu futhi ubambe iqhaza ezinkingeni zawo noma nini lapho uwudinga, kancane kancane "uzobeka" izingcezu endaweni yazo.
Kujwayelekile nokuthi aqale ukungazemukeli njengoba enjalo. Ngophawu oluncane lwezinguquko ezingazelelwe ekubukekeni kwakho ngokomzimba kufanele uqaphele. Kufanele usebenze ngokuzethemba futhi ufake amanani abeka phambili izinto ezifana nenhlonipho nokulungiselela ubuhlakani ngaphezu kosayizi namamodeli abekwe emphakathini. Makangaboni ukuthi uhlala uncoma abantu ngomzimba wabo noma ukuthi usebenzisa ukubukeka kwabo ukubathuka (okhuluphele, onempandla, omubi, ...). Ukuqinisa lezi zinkolelo kuye kuyindlela engcono yokwakha ubuntu bokuzethemba. Lokhu kufunda kutholakala phakathi nobuntwana, futhi uma ungasebenzanga ngokwanele kulokhu, manje yisikhathi sezingxoxo eziningi nokubekezela futhi, uma kunesidingo, ukucela usizo kochwepheshe.
Ungase futhi uthande:
- Ubusha
- Imihlahlandlela Ejwayelekile Yokukhulisa Umuntu Osemusha
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