There are people who spend most of their lives studying things they don't like to study or working on things they really hate. For these people or maybe also for you, it's a tough time every morning when the alarm goes off and you get out of bed knowing it's going to be a day that is going to make you angry and frustrated sooner or later… Who wants to live like this all the time? Can you really realize that your work or the studies you are doing are not really for you?
The most common is that it takes a little admit that the life you're leading isn't the one that really satisfies you, but doing it is the most liberating thing you can do, because the next step will be to look for solutions to feel better and to be able to lead a life that really makes you feel whole.
No excuses to accept what you do not want, finding enough courage to overcome your self-limiting beliefs and so on, to be able to chase your dream. I did it, and today I am happy for having done it. Do you want to follow the same path? Well, do not miss the signs that tell you that your jobs or your studies do not satisfy you ... remember that life is much more than earning money to pay bills. Be honest with yourself.
You are always on the edge
When you are in a job that you hate or are in the middle of some studies that you know are going to get you nowhere, then you will notice how your temperament changes and how always you will be irritable and irascible. You may always be on the edge with the people closest to you because you take the stress of college or work home with you. If this happens to you constantly, you will have to evaluate your current situation, it is possible that your work or your studies are affecting you more than necessary and you should change your path.
You can't find time for yourself
Do you remember when you could do those things that you like and that satisfy you as a person? Most people have a full time of 40 (or more) hours per week and must spend it in the office. But if you are happy with your work, you will know how to find time and energy to do things that you like., but if you do not feel good about your work or your study hours, then your vitality will be diminished and you will only want to rest because of the mental exhaustion that you feel. The work you do every day should be the kind of life you want to live, that is ... if you don't like your job, it's as if you don't enjoy life, but if you like it ... you will never work again because it won't mean you no effort to do your daily work.
You do not sleep well
Sometimes the nerves of the next day do not let us rest, which means that you will have to deal with a day that you do not like and sleep will be impaired because It is difficult for you to disconnect to rest. If you feel stressed, you may not have quality sleep, which is a clear sign that you should make a change in your life as soon as possible.
Your friends and family tell you that you are not happy
You may not want to see it but it is something that is noticeable and seen in the environment. The people who love you and around you can notice your vibrations and your energies. If they try to talk to you about this topic, don't dodge it.... listen to them, maybe you should start to think that if there are so many who tell you, it is because they are right.
The people you work with make you feel bad
If you feel fear or anxiety about going to work because of the colleagues you have or even your boss, it is because something is not going well and you will have to find a solution in this regard. Do not spend 40 hours a week with people you cannot bear or you will suffer serious consequences for your health. If you do not feel well and you even have thoughts that make you feel worse, try to talk about this with someone you trust and above all, find a solution to be better. But never give up hope to pursue your dreams.