Many years ago a professor of mine told me a paraphrased phrase from Albert Guiñón: 'When everyone is against you it means that you are totally wrong, or that on the contrary, you are absolutely right.' And so it really is. There are millions of people who have the opportunity to advance their careers and their world of work, but the vast majority cannot do it, especially when everyone is against their wishes ... They make the mistake of thinking that they are on the wrong path.
If you have always wanted to do something and you know that doing it will bring you happiness, it does not matter if your dream is to be a public school teacher or an entrepreneur in your own private company ... what matters is that if you want to do it, you can dream it and if you dream it, you can get it, you just have to believe in yourself.
On many occasions, people can be against your dreams simply out of envy or because they would not dare to take that step in your place, but you do not have to feel affected by negative words when you know well where you want to go. Do not listen to anyone who is against your dreams or your personal development. It is accepted that making other people rich, but maybe your dream has nothing to do with it. Even if everyone is against you, believe in yourself and everything will be fine whether you are an employee or an entrepreneur.
Be a productive person
But you must be a productive person for you, to feel good and get your work done without feeling burdened of any kind. If you have a very demanding boss, you won't be able to imagine a day when breathing easy is normal. Don't get overwhelmed. When your anxious and stressed boss approaches, do not allow his negativity to spread to you and with confidence in yourself, make him see that you have it under control and that there is no risk of stress. Do not lie, ask for advice if you need it ... to have control you must be immersed in your work.
Work with less noise
It is difficult to work and focus on tasks when your colleagues or employees are talking about their life experiences or problems out loud. It is necessary that you reduce this background noise so that it does not affect your productivity, especially if you are responsible for some projects.
If you are the boss, then you will have to establish some rules so that your employees are not unproductive and waste your time and money. If you don't like giving orders, you can give firm suggestions and even offer to talk about their things at another time. or otherwise, but work is not a place of leisure.
Show who you are and what you want
For people to respect your decisions, you must be sure of what you want and how far you want to go. One way to achieve this is by brainstorming and reflecting on what the keys to success are for you. But If you are an introvert, it will be difficult for you to create something new and express your point of view to other people and less if they are a large group.
But that your way of being does not stop your ideas and what you want to achieve. If you have ideas that you want to develop, do it, do not be afraid. Listen to me when I tell you that it is better to regret doing the things you really want to do, than never having done them out of fear or because of what they will say. Think of yourself and think about what will make you feel happy and comfortable in your professional future. If you have a creative mind it is inadvisable that you work solely for one boss… being your own boss will probably be the best satisfaction for you.
Organize your mind and be flexible
In order to achieve your goals, it is very important that you keep in mind that your mind must be structured and well organized in order to achieve your dreams. To begin with, it will be necessary that you have a comfortable workplace that allows you to concentrate well.
You must think that your work should not be an uncomfortable place, so think about how to make your work days more and more pleasant, whether in front of a computer, at the work table or talking to clients every day. Do not save on comfort and think about your health and your mental health is the most important thing.