With the end of the first trimester they will arrive the notes, for some students the confirmation of effort and concern to excel, for others the palpable demonstration that they have not used their time efficiently, that there may be learning difficulties a given subject, even spending considerable time studying it, that there may be some underlying problem that prevents a optimal concentration (behavior problems, troubled and difficult family situation, etc.) or a lifestyle inconsistent with adequate performance.
Facing a suspense. We can observe it from two different points of view, although the solutions have to be found together.
" The student. Failure must be accepted from self-criticism, analyzing what has been done wrong or the reasons why, despite the effort, it has not yielded the expected fruit, but also from the desire to overcome and adopt the necessary measures to not make the same mistakes.
»The family, the environment of this. Common sense must prevail, above all, stay away from the drama. A suspended It may not mean anything depending on the circumstances (new school year, new center and classmates, some specific situation such as a move or an illness that has kept you away from studies, etc.), even if there are no forces of greater cause that have caused it , the student's will to improve the situation must prevail.
El faculty will be able to provide information on why the student has led to such a situation, and only from then on can the appropriate decisions be made looking for a suitable solution for both parties. Yes OK take a suspense It is not pleasant in any situation, it must be recognized that it is a somewhat complicated date for it, since gifts (or rather the lack of them) is the first disciplinary measure that is usually taken in these cases.
The most prudent thing is to know the causes and the will of the child, only then will you be acting accordingly.